In New Zealand, our love is deserved.

Let alone how great and beautiful love is. Let's talk about life in New Zealand. What's the difference between our love and China's?

Perhaps because of the impetuous social environment in China, or because of the pressure from relatives and friends around, China people define the simplest love as the most complicated thing in the world. From the catchphrase "I believe in love again", it is not difficult to see that in the materialistic environment of China, many people regard love as an unrealistic thing. Having a house and a car is the premise of love, and a boring marriage is the product of love. Who cares if we love each other?

However, there is only one condition for love: I love you and you love me. It's not about others, it's not about material things, it's just about you and me. However, most people will not agree with this view.

Fortunately, we chose New Zealand. Here, love has returned to its original appearance. In New Zealand, our love is like this dialogue between San Mao and Jose:

Jose: Do you have to marry a rich man?

Sanmao: If I don't love him, I won't marry him if he is a millionaire. If I love him, if he is a multimillionaire, I will marry him.

Jose: After all, you have to marry a rich man.

Sanmao: There are exceptions.

Jose: What if you follow me?

Sanmao: As long as you have enough money to eat.

Jose mused, Do you eat much?

San Mao answered very carefully: not much, not much, you can eat less in the future.

New Zealand is a country of fraternity, where we have learned that giving is happier than taking.

In New Zealand, many people take part in all kinds of charitable activities in their spare time: raising money for stray dogs, raising money for poor children, cooking a sumptuous lunch for vulnerable groups at Christmas, organizing various activities for churches, and cleaning up garbage at the seaside ... It is such an experience that we have learned the ability to love and don't care what we get from this love. On the contrary, it is this "nothing" that makes us feel happier in love.

New Zealand is an immigrant country and Auckland is a multicultural city. Here, we learned to tolerate our differences. In New Zealand, we meet people from all over the world. Their personalities, world outlook and even common hobbies may be very different from ours. We make friends and even fall in love with people of different races. Constant cultural shocks and different life experiences have taught us to respect other people's ideas and accept our differences. This allows us to learn to tolerate different personality characteristics in love.

New Zealand is a simple and material society. Here, it is easier for us to love Ta as it is. Among the ancient Greeks' descriptions of love, there is one called Agape love, which means that we are willing to choose to love no matter what the situation is and whether the other party may disappoint us.

However, to love Ta as it is, we must first learn to love ourselves unconditionally. New Zealand society attaches great importance to individuality. Everyone is an independent individual and should have their own ideas and values. In New Zealand, many people will complain that the female model in the advertising poster is too slim, and even ask Topshop to replace the model dummy in the store with a normal female size. New Zealanders advocate that women need to reconsider the definition of beauty, and accepting their healthy figure is the most important thing.

New Zealand's "nudists", who are relished, don't just like to be naked on the beach. They call on everyone to love their appearance and not to hate themselves because of the definition of beauty in popular culture. Look at the cover of Lush's product brochure in New Zealand, and you will know that women of all shapes are equally beautiful.

Loving ourselves lets us know that in love, we can't lower ourselves to please others. Only when we have the ability to accept our imperfections unconditionally can we know how to accept others unconditionally. "Only when you learn to love yourself unconditionally can you believe that you deserve unconditional love from others."

I married Ta because I love Ta, that's all What's the harm in letting the world laugh at me for being stupid? Because in New Zealand, love is really what it should be.

"Each of us is an island, a whale lurking in the deep sea, singing in a low voice at different frequencies. We look for people with the same frequency all the way, and we don't feel tired. We always look forward to the end of the journey, and we will always find the other side where we can dock. Even if the world is noisy, we should keep our own frequency and travel alone, which is real. I believe that one day, you will meet someone who can understand your singing. "

New Zealand is so small that I can see you as soon as I turn around.