Never deny anyone at will, this is a kind of cultivation.

There will always be some people who think that what they see is all. I always like to impose my views on others and give them a definition and conclusion.

There is a saying: "Please don't judge me lightly. You only know my name, but you don't know my story You just heard what I did, but you don't know what I went through. "

Don't judge anyone easily, because what you see is not necessarily the truth.

There are many things in this world that you don't know. People always have such a psychology: they can't help reading others with their own ideas.

The psychological statement, called "projection", is to project one's feelings to the outside world in a preconceived way.

Say a few common psychology about projection. If you like durian, you think others should like it, so you can't understand those who think durian stinks and dare not eat it. You think people should get married and have children all their lives. For unmarried dink, I feel psychological problems. You like to shop around and pursue high cost performance. When you see people with your average income spending money lavishly, you will think that they are too failed.

? In fact, there are no exactly the same two leaves in the world, and there is no completely correct three views and lifestyle.

Yours is not necessarily right, and others are not necessarily wrong.

? There are many things in this world that you don't know.

If you go abroad, you will find:

? The driver's seat of their car is on the right and people drive on the left;

? Many people abroad will choose to rent a house, not because they can't afford it, but because they can change rooms at any time;

? In the Netherlands, same-sex people can also get married. ...

? The world is big and people's cognition is limited.

? If you always project your thoughts on others, it is different from the three views, and it is prejudice and disrespect for others.

? The more ignorant people are, the easier it is to blame others.

I have heard a story that a young couple in England is going to get married. Although they have little money, they are still looking forward to marriage because they love each other. Before getting married, the husband took out some savings and bought a ring for his wife. Ring 130 USD. Although there are no diamonds, women feel very happy. Unexpectedly, in the jewelry store, when she tried on the ring, she got the sympathy of the clerk. The salesgirl said to her, "I can't believe a man would get married with such a cheap ring." Too sad. " Later, this experience was put online. The wife came out and explained that getting married doesn't necessarily require tens of thousands of diamond rings and exciting ceremonies. That salesgirl may not know. How many storms the young couple have experienced together, how many bitter days they have endured, how much romance and emotion they have had ... can the feelings in the middle be measured by money?

? Everyone has his own life experience, and being born is very different.

? We will have different views and different lives. ...

? If you haven't experienced other people's lives, you can't tell them what to do.

? Think of the news that Li Yong, the host, emigrated abroad many years ago, just came out.

? Many netizens bombed, questioning his unpatriotic, saying that he was ungrateful and left with enough money at home. ...

? It was not until Li Yong died suddenly last year that he knew the truth: he was ill and went abroad for medical treatment.

? He was ill and didn't want to disturb the people, but when he was ill, he was disturbed and poured a lot of dirty water.

Now that he's gone, we owe him an apology that we can't say any more.

? People are always like this, and it is easy to define things without making it clear.

? And use malicious language to evaluate and slander others.

? And what about the person who was said?

? They may have skeletons in their closet and can't explain the truth clearly. But does this mean that they will be reviled?

? It is a basic accomplishment not to judge others casually.

? Because you never know what others have experienced.

You can light your own lights, but don't blow out others' lights.

? There is a passage in The Great Gatsby: When I was young and ignorant, my father taught me a sentence, which I still remember. He said to me, "Whenever you want to criticize someone, you should remember that not all people in this world have the advantages you have."

? I'm impressed.

? A person's personality and lifestyle are greatly influenced by the surrounding environment.

? Judging others, it is easy to compare their shortcomings with our own strengths.

In the end, it becomes belittling others and hurting each other.

? Living in this world is not easy for anyone.

? Everyone has his own way of life. We don't have to ask ourselves to live according to other people's lifestyles, but don't force others to be exactly like us. We should allow the diversity of the world and respect every difference.

? You don't need to care too much about other people's comments. Everyone is an independent individual. After all, life is in your own hands. Don't compare with others, and live a wonderful life.

Please remember:

You can light your own lights, but don't blow out others' lights.