How should mothers guide their children to go abroad for college?

The purpose of parents choosing to send their children abroad is undoubtedly to hope that their children will have a better learning environment, gain better cognition and enrich the three views. But life abroad is not as simple as we thought. When children leave home and go abroad, it means that everything must become independent, and everything needs to be faced and solved by themselves. At least four points should be mentioned here:

First, the health problem is a cliche for my mother, but I still want to emphasize that the quality of food abroad is very good, so don't worry about eating bad things. However, you know how warm and cold it is, the climate of many countries is not like that of China. Pay attention to adding or subtracting clothes, especially girls. For the love of beauty, it is best not to pay attention to the weather change.

Second, economic problems, going abroad means that you are an independent individual, and you need to find ways to solve your living expenses and other expenses by yourself, rather than relying solely on your family. No matter whether the family conditions are good or bad, we must learn to manage money and control our income and expenditure. You don't have to go out to work and wash dishes, but you must know how to get in and out. Besides doing part-time jobs, school scholarships can also solve a large part of problems, so learning is very important. There are many discounts on foreign things, and they are very real discounts. When you can choose a discount, try to choose a discount, which can save a lot of money. Money can be controlled to a certain extent, so children must know that money is not easy to earn now.

Third, academic problems, whether you like studying or not, but going abroad means that many things have to start over. Language and teaching system need to adapt quickly, but don't give yourself reasons and excuses. You will get better gradually after the first half of the year.

Fourth, emotional problems are also the most serious problems. Anyway, lead an honest and clean life, don't go to bars and nightclubs, and don't promiscuous. Loneliness is a common problem for international students. Both men and women need company, and no one will take everything as daily life. Therefore, be careful when making friends. Those who are too rich are impossible. There must be people abroad who are richer than you, and almost none of them are promiscuous. Staying away from this circle will avoid many problems. People's hearts are separated from their bellies, and no matter how reliable they are, they can't stand loneliness when they go abroad and have no one around them. There is nothing wrong with talking about a friend properly, just don't go too far. Don't choose to live abroad or emigrate. If you come back one day, just find someone to accompany you. If you want to continue to develop, wait until you return to China.

By the way, time for studying abroad is precious. If you can walk and see more, go and see more. The United States can choose to drive by car, and Europe can visit other countries more. It doesn't hurt to watch more, so do people. Just don't invest too much.