After the divorce, Jison, who lived with Jin Dong, 9 years younger, was opposed by her daughter to break up. How's it going now?

The urban realistic emotional drama "If Time Can Go Back" starring Jin Dong, Yi Ru and Li Naiwen is being broadcasted. With the emergence of topics such as "middle-aged crisis", "emotional infidelity" and "domestic violence", the discussion was ignited and the ratings were among the best.

Jin Dong, the leading actor, said in an interview that this drama reflects the most real life state of middle-aged people:

"Whose life is not a chicken feather? In life, we often can't see ourselves clearly, so when life suddenly changes, we often feel at a loss. But after adaptation, we will adjust and find ourselves, and eventually we will return to the warm road of re-examining family and personal love life. "

And his feelings seem to be more like an account of his love with Jison 10 years ago.

Jison: "Thinking is a dream"

Now many young people only know Jin Dong, not Jison. The recent impression is probably the "old woman" in My People and the "Meteor in the Sky" of my motherland.

Her appearance is particularly simple, even a little rustic and sloppy. After catching Liu Haoran and Chen Feiyu, this dusty, chubby "old woman" waved scattered banknotes, and with trembling tears, she captured the despair of "hating iron and not producing steel".

Who can remember that she was a popular movie and television song in the 1990s?

Jison, who graduated from Chinese opera, reached the peak when she made her debut. Her cooperation with Wang in Addiction made her famous for a while, and they became recognized as "screen lovers".

The following year, Jison became a popular movie star with a song "Water Town in My Dream" with great artistic conception of water town in the south of the Yangtze River, and her career rose step by step.

"Beijing Youth Daily" said: Jison has a high starting point on the screen. At the beginning of her debut, she became popular with the TV series Addiction. Coupled with her sweet appearance, atmospheric acting skills and a good voice, she has the conditions to become a star. But she did the opposite and chose a different path.

After winning the "Top Ten Golden Melody Awards of the New Generation in China" by Wenzhou TV Station 1997, she got married in the process of filming I Want to Have a Home with actor Gao Shuguang, and starred in True Love Invincible and Life and Death Express successively.

Soon, my daughter was born and named Gao Yixin. "One heart" is to separate the word "love" as a witness to their feelings.

Jison slowed down at the peak of his career and chose to return to his family. As she said, "a brilliant career has never been my pursuit."

However, this marriage, which cost Jison everything, failed to grow old together, even failed to survive the seven-year itch. In 2003, when filming "Dazhaimen 2", the two divorced and Gao Yixin was only 5 years old.

As for the reasons for divorce, Gao Shuguang once said that the main reason is that they have different understandings of marriage and life: they like being dull, while Jison likes pursuing passion.

Jiang Shan once said it was because he was too stubborn.

Gao Shuguang and Jison didn't break up after their divorce. On the contrary, because their daughter became good friends, Gao Shuguang said: The divorce didn't hurt me, but I wanted to bless Jison.

Gao Shuguang sincerely hopes that Jison can find the right person, but her daughter's high faith has become the biggest "obstacle".

Drama and Jin Dong's "Mother-child Love"

At that time, because Gao Yixin was too small, she was awarded to her mother Jison when she divorced. Jiang Shan lives while filming with her daughter. When she co-produced "Sad Mother and Son" with Jin Dong, she was moved by the play.

Jison is nine years older than Jin Dongda, but they play a pair of "mother and son" in the play. Jison has made a splash, and Jin Dong is still an unknown newcomer.

Although Jin Dong is young, he likes Jison very much and is very kind to his daughter. They crossed the boundaries of age and status and were not afraid of outside gossip. So the two fell in love and lived together for five years, and even once talked about marriage. Jin Dong also plans to immigrate to the United States with Jison.

However, the daughter Gao Yixin's resolute opposition made this relationship end in vain.

Jison put down all domestic praise, immigrated to the United States with her 9-year-old daughter, and accompanied her full-time in the United States, earning only one TV series in China every year.

Jison said, "For me, feelings are more important than work. My family always comes before my career, and my daughter is my best work. "

In this way, at the peak of being an actor, Jison almost quit the entertainment circle and was alone.

And after several years of wandering, Jin Dong and angel lee got married because of drama, and the family was happy. In 20 15, her ex-husband Gao Shuguang remarried with a stranger's wife who was 16 years younger than her, and gave birth to a lovely son.

It seems that only Jison was blocked by her daughter and lost her "happiness". In fact, Jison never felt that he had lost anything, but felt very happy.

"Small abacus" with high faith

Gao Yixin is not a loveless child. Even after her parents divorced, her father Gao Shuguang flew to the United States to visit her from time to time every year, and her mother Jison arranged for her to return to China to reunite with her father and grandmother every year. Therefore, Gao Yixin's new personality is very positive, and her relationship with her mother Jison is better than that of her sisters.

When her daughter became an adult, Jison also took her back to China to participate in the recording of the program, telling the happy life of their mother and daughter.

Mother and daughter talk about everything, and have never experienced the so-called child adolescence and rebellious period that other mothers have experienced! And Jison is tired from work, so she will spoil her daughter when she comes home! How enviable!

The most interesting thing is that Jison once told her daughter about her previous emotional experience. Jison was the most excited when her daughter was pursued at school. Not only did she not object, but she also hoped that her daughter could face it positively.

Jison said: If my daughter has someone she likes, I shouldn't object, because my daughter is more accurate in judging people than I am!

The daughter also said that if her mother has a suitable partner, she will not object, as long as her mother is happy!

Therefore, when Jiangshan reported that Jaco, a little 15 years old, was suspected of falling in love because of drama, according to informed sources, Gao Yixin was very optimistic about Jaco and supported his mother to be with Jaco.

In the face of this "shocking" 15-year-old sister-in-law relationship, Jaco, the leading actor, first clarified that he only regarded Jison as his sister and teacher, and then reversed his tune, which seemed a bit interesting.

Jaco said, "Girls are better at caring for people when they are a little older. Considering that you are often not at home when filming, the elderly at home and other things need to be taken care of, but these things still depend on fate. "

Maybe it's fate. 20 17 In the final of "The King of Cross-border Songs 2", 19-year-old Gao Yixin appeared to cheer for her mother.

After winning the championship trophy, 50-year-old Jison thanked another lover and family on stage, suspecting that he had been married twice.

"I want to thank my other family. Because he works in other places, he can't share this happiness with me immediately, but I am willing to keep this honor and happiness until I meet him and give it to him. Without the support and encouragement of you and your daughter, I wouldn't have such great courage. Thank you, my love. "

A person familiar with the matter said that the man is an actor, but he is not well known. I wonder if he is Jison's 15-year-old Jaco. It's good for Jison to keep this relationship a secret.

Anyway, it is gratifying that Jison can find true love with her daughter's support.

Maybe many people don't understand why Gao Yixin resolutely opposes his mother being with Jin Dong, who is 9 years younger, but supports Jaco, who is 0/5 years younger, to pursue his mother.

Actually, it's not hard to understand.

After Jison divorced Gao Shuguang, she kept Gao Yixin in the dark until she went to primary school at the age of 7. Gao Yixin accepted it unexpectedly and calmly.

But in fact, she has always hoped that her father can remarry and reunite with her mother, so that she can have a complete family. This is probably the wish of all children in the world.

What's more, when Jison and Jin Dong fell in love, Gao Yixin was only about 8 years old. Children who can't hide their emotions can only protect their homes in their own way.

After Jison and Jin Dong broke up, Gao Yixin arranged for his mother and father to remarry more than once. Her father Gao Shuguang's words made her give up her ideas and changed her attitude towards her mother's love affair.

Gao Shuguang's daughter said, "Baby, mom and dad separated after careful consideration, because they felt unhappy together, and they would be even more unhappy if they just made do together. When you grow up, be brave with the person you love, but if one day you feel unhappy, you should leave bravely like your parents. "

Later, when Jison and Jaco were having an affair, Gao Yixin was already a girl of 15 years old. She understands the hardships of her mother's filming to support her family and hopes that someone will appear to take care of her.

Conclusion:

Looking back on Jison's life, some people may feel sorry for her missed career, but what I admire more is her wisdom in life.

Jison did have some emotional impulses when she was young, but after middle age, she knew what she wanted and immersed herself in a happy life every day.

For her career, unlike many people, she will not turn herself into a workaholic. She has her own rhythm, enjoys life and has her own freedom.

Such a life is also a kind of happiness.