Twenty short and pithy articles

Why is the feeling of happiness always overwhelmed by thoughts?

Why is the feeling of happiness always overwhelmed by thoughts? Why do you want a promise that can only be conveyed with a smile?

If you can't get the soul, do you still care about intimacy? If you can't get eternity, why stay together?

Of course, we can repeat our first love, but we can't repeat our regrets.

You can regret it repeatedly, but you can't like it repeatedly.

The feeling of happiness is always overwhelmed by missing, because missing is sometimes bitter and helpless.

Why can a promise only be conveyed by a smile? Because we don't want to lie. I don't want to lie, so I have to replace my promise with a smile.

Without soul, intimacy becomes ugly, but why can't some men have souls? I'm a man too.

Sometimes, being together doesn't mean forever. Maybe we're worried about someone else.

The feeling of first love may come again, but you and I had better not fall in love with the wrong person again.

Repetitive regret is so frustrating. After regretting, it doesn't mean you can start over. The so-called like, only one person.

There is only one person at the ends of the earth.

Are you happy today? Has the feeling of happiness ever been drowned by missing? Can you only smile when you hear a promise?

Just believe it. Anyway, we still have to face life with a smile.

It seems inappropriate to broadcast it at school, hehe.

Take control of your own life

Your own road, no matter how close, can't walk for you; The storm of real life can only be felt by yourself.

After listening to a friend's speech, "What actions will lead to what results", a woman timidly raised her hand and asked, she wanted to study abroad, but her father, that is, her boss, disagreed. What should she do?

It turned out that she was born with a golden spoon in her mouth. Her family has an expanding family business, and every family member has a fixed job waiting as soon as he leaves school. But she is obviously not happy about it. Working in the family business for several years means that she has never been exposed to society. The monotonous life and the feeling of not growing up make her eyes look more and more like a dead fish.

Now, going abroad is her dream. She has passed the TOEFL and GRE exams, and she plans to study for a degree in business administration. However, as soon as she mentioned the plan to go abroad, her parents felt that she was "dissatisfied" and "rebellious" and stopped her on the grounds that "it would be dangerous for unmarried girls to go abroad". She is a good child and has never done anything that her parents didn't expect. The struggle between family and self-will left her at a loss.

If you can't realize your dream all your life, will you regret it? A friend who is a career planning lecturer asked her. The woman nodded firmly with a look of "I will die unsatisfied". A friend said: "It is not unfilial to have the courage to cut the umbilical cord and realize your dreams. If you are not prepared for anything, it is easy to go against your parents. When you are ready, you can firmly tell your parents your decision. I believe they will know that you are serious, not doing bad things. What are you afraid of? "

A woman's smile is like the first ray of sunshine after a heavy rain. "I see, thank you. In fact, I decided to go out to study business administration, and I also wanted to help my father a little more when I returned home! Old enterprises must be reformed. "

I looked at that woman's face and thought, she's about twenty-seven or eight years old. If 10 years later, she still refuses to take the first step of being a "revolutionary woman" and continues to live according to the wishes of others, so that people at home can't live a dream, what will it be like?

I hope she can really take that step, because although family members can provide shelter for family members, they can't bless you for a lifetime, and no matter how close they are, they can't walk for you.

I know your relatives are afraid of getting wet, but only you can feel the ups and downs of real life.

I think of an old gentleman interviewed not long ago for hosting a TV program. That's really a jaw-dropping example of "horrible" filial piety. Although he was once elected as a model of filial piety and a model father, it seems that he is definitely a "good man". He is very good at learning. In the Japanese occupation era, he was able to enter a national university as a child of an ordinary family and pass the appraisal examination of public servants. He is also very filial. As long as his parents ask him to do humble work, he dare not refuse. His wife was asked by his parents to marry him, which was a matter of course at that time. His wife is also a gentle, humble and thrifty traditional woman. However, no matter how well she does, as long as her father is unhappy and lets him beat his wife, he and his wife dare not refuse. When he was almost 30 years old, his wife had already given birth to twin girls. His parents said that if it was a man, he would save it, and if it was a woman, he wouldn't dare to refuse. Even if the family can pay for the incubator, he dare not refute and let his daughter "forget it."

He kept telling the grievances of the past, and proudly wrote "Who is more filial than me" on his face, but at the same time he twitched with an inexplicable sadness. Because, no complaints are not true, his father is nearly a hundred years old under his filial piety. But a few years ago, he wanted to "recruit" his wife to commit suicide, because "although I am the eldest in the family, in my father's eyes, I am not as good as an ant ..." His voice became a crying tone.

He is 70 years old, crying like a child ... I suspect he has grown up. He is 70 years old and still affirming his parents. ...

The virtue of filial piety deserves praise, but I don't think his filial piety deserves praise at all. I just want to run away. I think his parents are really nerve-racking, dealing with an old child who always complains about his parents, asks for candy when he is 90 years old, and commits suicide to show it to his parents.

A friend who just left society once told me about his family. He lamented that seeing other people's parents have the ability to contribute money and provide a good environment for their children, he was destined to start from scratch, work hard alone, earn a meager salary and help subsidize the family economy. What a terrible life.

I told him not to rush to judge at this time. Perhaps your "helplessness" in growing up can also be interpreted as "freedom". It is the richest asset to cultivate a strong vitality that can manipulate the autonomy of life.

Learn to steer early, you won't regret it.

When the family was reunited, my younger brother who had been studying abroad for many years came back with his wife and children. We were all eating hot pot together, and my mother suddenly said to me sadly, "Sorry, I have no money for you to study abroad ..."

This is not the first time my mother has mentioned this. I reminded her: Mom, stop it. Am I fine now? After things have changed, I am no longer annoyed.

"I just think it's unfair to you ..."

Of course, it's not fair. After graduating from National Taiwan University and taking the TOEFL, my mother and I discussed studying abroad. My mother is in charge of the economy, and she is not very supportive of my college education. At this time, she said without thinking, "Why do girls have to learn so much? Our family's money is left to my brother. You have to find your own way. " My brother, who didn't like reading since he was a child, flew to Australia to study for a master's degree with the active encouragement of his mother as soon as he graduated.

The sentence "You have to find your own way" sounds harsh at first, but it also effectively throws the steering wheel of life in my hand.

Later, I was admitted to graduate school and got a scholarship. Go to school at eight o'clock in the morning and go to work in the newspaper after class. After work, I often work at night 12 and try to write a report in the central library on Saturday and Sunday. It was really hard at first, and soon after, I developed a part-time job. Although I didn't go abroad, I still got a master's degree in "Tu" and never starved myself.

I became brave when I was independent, and gradually matured through various tempering. I learned to go my own way in life in frustration.

Everything is my choice. Walking on your own road, you can see the rich and detailed life scenery.

Times have changed, and everyone has a chance to change. She was taught by her mother at an early age that "only men are useful people in society". Later, she accepted the baptism of some modern concepts, reviewed the partiality of preferring sons to daughters, and repented many times for not letting me study abroad. I didn't go abroad to study for a doctorate, so I didn't lose anything when I thought about it. I like the road I walked.

The best thing I learned from independence is that I have my own values and judgments, and I have autonomy in life.

I swear, at least I won't blame my parents for the rest of my life: "You called me ... that's why I ..."

Mixed feelings, self-responsibility, this is the real growth.