American family immigrants

What you said is reasonable, which is caused by the cultural differences between China and the United States. In China's history, we paid attention to beating brothers and killing the enemy's father and son. Blood affinity or not, broken bones and tendons. The family pays attention to laughter and respect, family law is greater than national law, and family affection is higher than organization. Therefore, when we old people encounter difficulties, the first thing we should think about is how our children can help, not the social assistance system. Of course, this is related to the imperfect social security system in China at this stage. The United States is an immigrant country, and everyone pays attention to the embodiment of their personal values. When raising children independently, they have fulfilled their mission and fulfilled their parents' responsibilities. Children don't owe their parents anything, and they have no obligation to bear emotional debts. When you get old, look for social assistance systems and insurance institutions, and rely on systems, systems and organizations to solve your own difficulties. Therefore, American children pay attention to the improvement of personal ability and personalized development, and pay little attention to family interests, blood relationship, affection and mutual assistance. They thought it was a sign of cowardice. This difference is affecting and integrating into the society, and it is converging into the trend of social assistance, family assistance, neighborhood assistance and self-strengthening.