It's not the same as my boyfriend's future plan. Should we break up?

I think it's time to break up. After all, my future plans are different.

First of all, it is most important to spend a few years here, and we must stop when it is time to stop. Next, I offer you two directions:

First, if things are really like what your boyfriend said, "If a girlfriend is in this industry, she can do something with Qi Xin", this is no problem. The key point is that if you can get married, the other party is willing to share the fruits of entrepreneurship together. As a husband and wife, you should have the attitude of the master at this time, and don't talk about the salary level.

For you, money just goes from your left pocket to your right pocket. The money you earn belongs to this small family, so it doesn't matter. Second, public to public. Why do you take up so much money now? There is a simple reason. What you have done in the past has indicated your second direction: you bought your own house and wrote your own name. Even if you have the idea of changing careers now, it's not just because you want to change careers, but because you feel unfair. You think this is his company, and you are not the boss.

Moreover, if you go to a company in the same industry, although your salary is raised, you may be afraid that your boyfriend will be unhappy and simply say that you want to change careers. He can't say anything. You want to change careers out of this mentality, not out of the mentality of career planning. So the second direction I give you is "public to public". Although we are boyfriend and girlfriend, I found the same job among my peers, but the salary is much higher. There is too little money here. Isn't this an invisible exploitation? I am not the owner of the company, not a shareholder. I am just an ordinary employee, so I should get the salary that ordinary employees should get. "

It's easy if he doesn't agree. You can go directly to another company and the salary is much higher. Shanghai is a realistic place. If he wants to talk about Qixin's cooperation, then either everyone is the boss of the company, or he will pay at the market price. Feelings are feelings and money is money. Don't mix feelings with money. You are in a dilemma now, because you have involved these two things together.

To sum up, you can choose both directions, but you must choose to go at once instead of being stuck here. On the one hand, you feel very unhappy because you accepted your boyfriend's invisible exploitation, and on the other hand, you say smugly here, "My boyfriend opened a company in Shanghai."

When you have been in this company with the feeling of being the boss's wife, you also enjoy it. From another angle, this is actually the feeling of spending money on it. Therefore, you must be clear, don't get lost in these feelings, turn them into reason, action and practice, and your life can be solved.