Bipolar disorder is only angry with family members (? Cao Ge exposed himself to bipolar disorder)

Recently, Cao Ge blew himself up with bipolar disorder. When this news came out, netizens were shocked. Because bipolar disorder is something similar to mental illness, few stars in the entertainment circle will admit it. In the previous China society, many people could not pay attention to their mental illness, so diseases such as depression were regarded as mental illness.

For ordinary people, mental illness is a terrible thing and may even be discriminated against by others. But Cao Ge said bluntly. People have to admire Cao Ge's courage.

However, when Cao Ge blew himself up with bipolar disorder, netizens linked it with the marital status of Cao Ge and Wu Suling in previous years. In fact, in the early years, news of marriage change and divorce often came out in Cao Ge's marriage. Rumors of marital discord between the two people are often seen in newspapers.

This time, after Cao Ge suffered from depression, people finally found the reason.

Bipolar patients often can't control their emotions. Therefore, when family members get along, it is inevitable that they will do some bad things to their families for emotional reasons. No matter how deep the emotion is, it will become fragile without patient protection. The marriage between Cao Ge and Wu Suling may also be affected by bipolar disorder. However, after many years of marriage, the two never divorced. As a pillow person, Wu Suling must know Cao Ge's illness, but she can never give up. This is true love.

Marriage is the union of two people who love each other. Two people came together because of love, and finally entered the marriage hall because of love. But marriage is different from love. That is, after two people get married, they have to face the rest of their lives together. After two people live together, they will face the troubles of oil and salt sauce vinegar. How do couples handle conflicts? After living together, they will see many things that they didn't know before they got married. When two people show their truest side to each other, can both sides accept this change?

Marriage is like this, there will always be a wayward person. But another person's tolerance is equally important. In Cao Ge's marriage, Cao Ge may do some bad things because of her bipolar disorder. But it was Wu Suling's tolerance that kept the marriage going.

Many divorce cases stem from the uncompromising and intolerant relationship between husband and wife. It is precisely because both husband and wife refuse to give in, so there are more and more divorce incidents, mostly because of personality differences.

However, both husband and wife should be tolerant of each other and have a sense of protection for marriage. Only in this way can the marriage last. After all, it is inevitable that there will be some bumps in husband and wife's life. But in the face of contradictions in life, do you choose to give in or not to compromise?

After all, marriage is a science. I remember a Japanese scholar said before: "I feel scared at the thought of being a parent without taking exams." And isn't marriage like this?

How many people know about marriage before having children, and how many people think about it before getting married? Parents need exams, but what is more important than parents' exams is the marriage exam. Only by learning how to run a good marriage and how to be a good parent will it be much easier.

How many people choose to get married on impulse now? Without knowing the other half, I chose to get married just because of love, and then it is easy to choose divorce because of some contradictions after marriage. This is not only the end of a relationship, but also a waste of time and money spent in this relationship.

So now the concept of "cohabitation before marriage" has also been put forward. Choose to live together for a while before getting married. See if we can cooperate. This way of "living together before marriage" can make couples know each other's lifestyle better. This can also avoid choosing divorce because of different lifestyles after marriage.

You know, the tragedy of marriage is mostly caused by uncontrollable irritability and quarrels. Only when the husband and wife can face the quarrel correctly can the marriage last.