What should older young women do if they can't find a partner?

If you are an older woman, please give up your faith in Yue Lao and Cupid. It's really not for them to decide. Take the initiative. You can't just wait and die. Let's have a blind date. Don't set your sights too high. Don't stay at home and draw a picture.

Every day you wait at home, your cost will increase and your risk will increase. Otherwise, you won't become an older woman step by step, will you? Let me analyze it for you.

1, everything has advantages and disadvantages: campus love is pure, but sometimes it can't stand the test of geography and reality. The introduction of acquaintances is more reliable, but the other person may have a big personality difference. Online introduction can screen out the conditions that meet the requirements but may be false. So remember that everything has advantages and disadvantages, accept it with an open heart and judge it with a critical eye. If you really want to get married, please don't refuse any way casually, as it will lose many opportunities.

2. Don't be a "house girl" and a "workaholic": If you want to get married, at least you have to let the reliable men around you know that you are unmarried, you don't have a boyfriend, and you don't hate being chased by others. In other words, you shouldn't take the initiative to chase people, but at least give some men you don't hate some opportunities to chase you. In other words, please be peaceful, gentle and considerate. Participate in invitations issued by others without resentment. These are all very important. Don't be an otaku, don't be a workaholic, and don't believe that otaku and workaholic say it doesn't matter, so you can find someone-this can also be a positive result, but the chances will be much smaller. Because you don't give men a chance to chase you.

3. Don't wait, don't wait, don't wait (the important thing is said three times): The world is very big, and many times your shortcomings will become the advantages in the eyes of a few men. Sometimes you feel that you don't have any advantages, but you can become a very important quality in the eyes of a small number of men. You can refer to this question.