April 30th is the International Day against Child Abuse. How long does it take to cure childhood domestic violence?

April 30th is the International Day against Child Abuse. Is it organized by the American Anti-Corporal Punishment Organization? Effective correction center? The festival initiated by 1998 is designated as April 30th every year. The festival publicizes the concept of human rights against corporal punishment of children through various activities. Hundreds of countries and non-governmental organizations around the world participated in this grand event. This festival was originally established because in the United States, especially some immigrant families in Latin America and Asia and some black families with low income and low education, the phenomenon of beating children is still relatively common compared with white families, and even there is serious abuse and domestic violence. It is precisely because child abuse does exist in the United States that the Center for Effective Management of American Children's Human Rights Organizations launched a campaign against corporal punishment of children. In fact, this kind of domestic violence has appeared all over the world, especially in children's childhood, which needs a child's life to cure, and some even can't complete self-salvation until death.

Some people say that domestic violence is divided into hot violence and cold violence. Thermal violence refers to violence and physical injury to family members. Cold violence is only mental violence and abuse, as well as long-term indifference, contempt, alienation, no verbal communication and so on. Domestic cold violence has a high degree of concealment, and there is no scar of hot violence, but its danger is comparable to that of hot violence. Moreover, children who grow up in a domestic violence environment often have very painful childhood experiences. They are under unimaginable psychological pressure from others, with strong sense of insecurity, and it is difficult to establish a good partnership. There are few music group behaviors in school, which may even have an impact on their future marriage and parent-child relationship.

Domestic violence not only affects the life of one's own children, but also affects the communication and communication between children and the next generation, resulting in the cycle of this bad relationship: First, it affects the establishment of close relationship with others and social adaptation: it cannot express one's emotional needs with others well, has a strong defensive mentality towards people, is easily angered, and even imitates parents' problem-solving methods to deal with relationships with others, with poor social adaptability and low learning ability. This is exactly domestic violence. Second, it affects the parent-child relationship with the next generation, and it is easy to form a replicated family relationship: parents who have experienced domestic violence will repeatedly experience childhood psychological trauma in the process of taking care of their children and cannot respond to their baby's needs in time. If they are in this traumatic state for a long time, the baby's environmental adaptation will become disordered, and this trauma may accompany the child's whole childhood life.

People often say? Lucky people will be cured by childhood all their lives, while unfortunate people will be cured by childhood all their lives? This day of not hitting children should not be just April 30, but a day of normal life in all aspects, giving every child a happy childhood.