Parent-child love points to separation.

After watching the movie "The Croods: A New Age with My Children", I felt strange and funny, and it also triggered thinking about the love between parents and children.

Once in "Crazy Primitive Man 1", it was thought that a family should be together and three generations should be closely connected in order to face all difficulties and live a happy life together. In The Cross: A New Era, the theme of separation is introduced.

In the film, whether primitive or civilized, as parents, the natural protective love for their children is the same, and at the same time, this love contains control. You are my child, so you should stay with me. When the child grows up, there will be an outward tension from his parents.

In fact, the nature of parent-child love is a process of gradual separation. Separation means independence and maturity. Only when children leave their parents can they start their own life journey. A large part of the so-called neet people in our real life cannot be separated from the protection of their parents. Without the ability to separate, they will not be able to face life independently.

Parents' love is innate. Parents' best love for their children is to let them learn to take care of their own lives. The inheritance of life is that children leave their parents, organize their own families, have their own children, and continue to develop from generation to generation.

Parent-child love from proximity to boundary is not the reduction of love, but the sublimation of the meaning of love.