Strike up a conversation skill: * * Silk Post Bar girl introduction

Many boys like to stay at home and be diaosi, so they will lose many excellent opportunities to pick up girls. So how can we find another way? Post it, it's a good place to strike up a conversation.

Post it for everyone to see. Post bar is local, and the surrounding resources are all around you. Everyone can watch it once.

* * * Silk Post Bar to chat up girls introduction

First, the social environment:

What is the core of girls? Post Bar is an open social circle.

1, image design: When using Post Bar, all the optimizations are from photos to names. The name should be in Chinese, because English is not good for others to remember. ID should be domineering, and photos should use their own.

2. Set social class, social certification and social energy.

How to improve social class? There are two ways, beheading and taking the mass line. Building a crowd line is to get everyone together, meet a bunch of brothers in the post bar or bring a bunch of people into the post bar, but these are not easy to complete. That leaves decapitation. Decapitation means that you can ask the bar owner to authenticate you socially by talking. In other words, you need to win over the bar owner and put the post at the top. You take care of people with great energy in this post bar, and it will be easy to pick up girls in the future. This problem becomes how to pick up girls in the post bar and how to deal with bar owners. After adding the bar owner, I began to show my energy.

There are several simple ways to win the bar owner. The first way is to let others know who you are, beautify your image and make meaningful packaging. Bar owners also need to exchange values with high-level and high-energy people they know through their own identities.

Everyone knows that there was chaos in the late Qing Dynasty. The earliest uprising was Chen Sheng and Guangwu, and the uprising failed. The oppressed subjects are immigrants from six countries, not farmers. Chen Sheng, Guangwu and Nong Ming failed as enemies. Why did Chu Huaiwang later rule this country? Because he has appeal and strength. This is the social hierarchy. This historical story tells us that what we want to do, if we want to be attached to power, we must let ourselves represent someone with some power.

So boys should represent some kind of power in the post bar. For example, Xiao E said in the post bar that he was a lawyer at first and had a bunch of supporters, so if a second lawyer came, he would be out of the post bar. So when posting, you should show your strength, whose agent you are and who you represent.

Post Bar is an open social circle.

How to show your social status? First of all, show yourself at the leadership level. Xiao E posted a post in the Post Bar, "I want to invest 30w somewhere. Is there a suitable project? " . Little e, this shows your position. Then E sent a message to the bar owner, saying, "Do you know our energetic people? Any good investment projects? We can sit down and I can give you a commission. " Later, Xiao E asked the bar owner to delete the post, saying that the money had been invested and the post was unnecessary. I improved my social status on the first day of posting. Small e faces energetic people like small businesses. Later, Xiao E posted a few photos of himself going to Malaysia in the post bar, saying that he had gone to Malaysia to inspect the project. In this case, everyone in the post bar thinks he is awesome. At the end of the year, Xiao E sent another post, saying that "a traffic accident case was handled years ago. I hope everyone will pay attention to safety when traveling. " At the end of the post, everyone joined the small e, which is the power of social class.

After mixing in the post bar circle, you should pay attention to the details, such as paying attention to some post bars that affect the quality of life, Pu 'er tea post bars, leading bars, calligraphy and painting bars, etc., instead of paying attention to black silk bars. These details need to be considered. These details show your level. After attracting girls, I will wait for them to find you, get to know you, and find your high value through details. Then I will read all kinds of information about you and post it to speak. The more you know, the more you feel worthy of trust. Don't pick up girls in the post bar, associate with women, be ambiguous, and you will die miserably. Picking up girls needs to be done privately.

Girls pay attention to you and will send you private messages after exploring you. There are several kinds of women who can't make an appointment. Women who often expose photos will have endless troubles after winning the prize. This kind of woman is narcissistic and has more confidence in herself. This narcissistic person is more difficult to pick up. Many people add her QQ. If you take the initiative to add her, your ranking will go down. Girls who expose photos have stronger screening ability for men, and not everyone can do it. Girls who brush posts in the middle of the night should not go to bars every day, because women who brush posts in the middle of the night are generally ugly, and there is no date every day, because most beautiful girls have no time to brush posts.

So you should show your energy in the post bar, make your ranking clear, and then more girls will come to you. More people want to know you, know you, and think that you can add positive energy to them. You will find that someone wants to borrow your social energy.

Two. Meetings and activities

Parties and activities are usually organized by bar owners.

How to arrange parties and activities? Parties and activities are usually organized by bar owners. There are three ways to gain social energy at parties and activities.

1. If you are familiar with the meeting place, the boss will definitely give you face and propose a toast after everyone goes together. At the party, you still have to identify yourself, so that the whole post bar people are familiar with your energy, from online to offline.

2. If the staff of the Post Bar have their own familiar places and you are not familiar with them, why not? Then there are many people, and many people have advantages. So you can represent the majority, control the field. I represent the public.

3. If the place is unfamiliar and there are not many people, how should we play? Bring yourself a bottle of good wine. When you go to a party, you can say, "Everyone is so happy at the party, and I happen to have a bottle of good wine in my car", or tell the boss that you paid for the wine, or arrange for everyone to sing karaoke after dinner to show their energy.

If it is a student party, what should these look like and what should they be used for? It is also necessary to master in the party, either there are many people, or they are at home, or they have strength. For example, they can play games that they are good at, such as bringing roommates.

After doing these things, the strength will gather, and then some girls may come to you, and then you can go out and chat. The second stage is over.

Third, let women know you.

Let women know about you.

When you go out with a woman, no matter what you talk about, you can say to the girl, "I am very happy to chat with you today, but I am a little hurt recently." I want to drink some wine. We met today. I want some, so help yourself. " Drink to drown your sorrows and expose yourself to women. You are now in a lonely stage. You need a woman to care about you and expose your sensitive side. When drinking, you can tell your troubles to women, so that women will care about you. For example, you can say that you are particularly tired recently, and you are busy until eleven o'clock every day. Then the girl will ask, "won't that sister-in-law make you something to eat?" You can say, "She has gone back to her parents' house and is not at home every day. "Women will understand that a strong man like you actually has a particularly hard time, which will bring women closer and women will take the initiative to care about you. The first date is over at this stage. The most important thing is to show that you need a woman to care about you. If you go deep into women, you will think that you are pretending to act.

In the second stage, you should actively mobilize your emotions, such as karaoke, and ask her to go with you. Or play badminton or something. In the process of playing, mobilize women's emotions and let girls enjoy emotional fluctuations. If this stage can be advanced, it is possible to send girls home or push them down. Next is the third stage.

Fourth, summary.

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1, when you do something, you are not doing it at first, but thinking. The layout should be gradual. People who want to succeed should think.

2. Don't be impatient. Don't expose your needs at the beginning, if you are in a hurry, you will expose your purpose. The overall strategy is a quick victory, and the tactics are a protracted war.

3. Every step is actually a test, try to move forward.

Picking up girls is an art of war that is constantly improving and progressing.