How to persuade my father to allow me to study in America?

This is a very rare good question on Baidu. Apart from the lack of paragraphs and punctuation marks, parenthesis has too many comments, which makes it difficult to read. The articles written at a young age are really not bad, and there is no stereotype of ordinary villains. Let me suspend my retirement from Baidu, cheer up and give you some advice.

First of all, the source of the problem is why your father stopped immigrating without explaining to you, leaving you almost suspended in the air. It doesn't sound right that the immigration plan failed completely without documents. However, if it is a foregone conclusion that we cannot emigrate, we still want to study abroad and convince the elderly. Of course, you have to find out the situation first, or you will cry again.

You actually have three startup times and different ways.

The first one, of course, is that your first wish is to leave immediately, transfer to the United States to study in high school, and apply directly to the university. This road should be better for children to adapt to connection. From the best chance of success in applying for a university, it is of course the best choice. But applying to American universities is not the result of long-term accumulation. The most important time and stage is the eleventh grade (Grade Two in China), and most important exams should be completed in the eleventh grade. Now that you have finished the first year of high school, even if you overcome all difficulties and successfully transfer to the United States to study 1 1 grade, you may not have the chance to successfully keep up with the average level of your class and get the best grades in various exams, and the extracurricular activities that good schools attach importance to are more likely to be interrupted. Therefore, even if your family revolution is successful, unless you are psychologically prepared to repeat the tenth grade, these unfavorable factors may make you suffer when applying for a university. Therefore, if you know that it will take a long time to strip this road, it is very likely to achieve the same result as a chicken. Then why bother?

The second is to give up the college entrance examination and concentrate on applying for American universities. From now on, prepare SAT/SAT 2/ TOEFL /AP. All extracurricular activities will not only continue but also be strengthened. You should complete all the application procedures before the end of the last semester of senior three. If all goes well, when your classmates are overwhelmed by senior three, you will have many thick envelopes in your hand. Naturally, you can resume your absence and have fun. Your competitiveness is not much different from that of American students in most universities except top schools. It may be your best choice to realize your dream as soon as possible, and it also prevents you from confronting your father head-on under unfavorable circumstances. As long as you apply to a better school, hook your fingers with him, but the disadvantage is that if you don't get into a good school with an axe, you won't be able to take the college entrance examination. If you choose this, you have to burn your bridges.

The third way, of course, is the way most high school students take, take the college entrance examination, enter a book and then apply for the graduate school of American universities. This road is the safest and most economical. And you can be a filial daughter at home for a few more years or be angry with him for a few more years. Of course, you have to cover your nose and put up with what your father calls XX four years.

You may be a die-hard child, but the key to the problem may be that you can't adapt to the changes in the original immigration plan, but at the same time you don't really understand all the procedures for applying to American universities, so you always feel that you have plenty of time to take the first road. Think about the three options I suggested to you and make a decision without hesitation. But to be honest, the first way is not only short in time, but also more thankless.

If you want to study abroad early and miss a good school, it is obvious that you must go to cram school for more than a year from this summer vacation and take the second road. If I were your father, I would object to letting you study abroad, for whatever reason. Although the third way will make me feel more comfortable, it is an ideal compromise for both of us.

As for you, Larry Zaza says nothing else matters. Your parents think you may not survive in America because you were distracted in your first year of high school. In fact, they are too worried. People who are in a hurry will naturally stimulate their potential. As for killing one person and killing one person in the United States, it does exist, but to be honest, the probability is extremely low and there is a chance to avoid it. The shooting incident of two foreign students at the University of Southern California seems to be conclusive evidence of the deterioration of American public security in China, but in the eyes of us old overseas Chinese, it is a bit like a birthday girl to make love in a car in a black area with poor public security. Although you can't say you deserve it, it makes sense for a gentleman to go anywhere without showing his wealth. Wouldn't it be even worse if the same student accidentally walked on campus and was hit by the son of the public security bureau chief?

In the past few years, the total number of accidents and deaths of China students in the United States may be similar to that of China students who committed crimes or even killed classmates, girlfriends and professors in the United States, but it has not been reported in China. Don't give up eating because of choking.

As for your saying that someone will accuse you of vanity, don't take it to heart. There are maggots everywhere Of course, in the United States, there are a lot of China students who show off their wealth and attract attention, but these people will only be more arrogant at home. In addition to seeing the world and learning kung fu, you must learn to think independently when you come to the United States. As long as you control yourself, even your parents' words are just reference, let alone others.

Write a good essay and know how to self-review. It seems that the problem of adapting to the United States will not be too big.