Is the cemetery a new family grave?

No matter from the perspective of geomantic omen or from the existing ancient books, there is no such statement.

For example, "History of Fu Nan" says: "The new grave is sacrificed in front of the country, and both men and women in the family go." What I want to say here is that the men and women in our family and their relatives have to go, and they must go. Therefore, the saying in the question is that there is no wood without roots, and there is no water without sources.

Children at home can't go to the funeral, which not only violates ethics, but also makes the deceased unhappy in the underworld, which is greatly unfavorable to children and grandchildren. Harem participation is absolutely forbidden.