Do I have to live on campus in junior high school?

Most children in primary schools go to school at home, and they don't need to live in school every day when they come home from school. After junior high school, some schools will have dormitories, and children can live in school directly if necessary. Some parents may think that it is not harmful to let their children live in school: because if their children live in school, they can squeeze out more time to study and relax themselves, so it is not necessary to prepare meals for their children every day. Moreover, children living on campus by themselves can also exercise their self-care ability and live more independently.

So, is it really beneficial for children to live at school? Not really. Bai Yansong, a famous mouth of CCTV, said in an interview that he would never let his children live on campus. Bai Yansong didn't want to let his children live on campus because he thought boarding would do great harm to them.

Some people may think that Bai Yansong is out of touch when hearing such words, but Bai Yansong is not only a famous host of CCTV, but also the father of Xueba. So why does Bai Yansong think that children should not live on campus? In fact, it is mainly because of the following considerations:

Less contact time ● Children live in school and have less contact with their parents, which may lead to estrangement between parents and children. In fact, after children grow up, we can spend less and less time with their children every day. Many parents have to work during the day, and only in the evening can they spare some time to play with their children or teach their children to do their homework. Of course, we have to cherish the family time.

If children are directly sent to live on campus, the time for children to contact their parents will become less, which will lead to the growing estrangement between some children and their parents. All parents hope that their feelings with their children can be closer, but some of their parents' practices are pushing their children away invisibly. Letting their children live on campus will make some children feel abandoned by their parents and subconsciously have opinions on their parents, which is actually not conducive to the establishment of parent-child relationship.

Letting children live on campus may hurt their children deeply. Parents may think that letting children live on campus will help their academic performance, but they have never thought about what their children really think. ● Children who have just entered junior high school are inherently sensitive and fragile. They are very eager to get the attention of their parents and hope to get more love. If parents send their children to boarding schools directly, then the children will feel that they are not cared for, and they will feel deeply hurt.

Poor communication ● Children are bullied at school, and no one tells them, which may lead to their increasingly extreme personality. If children go home every night, many children will tell their parents what happened at school, thus sharing their daily life and gaining a sense of satisfaction. However, if children live in school for a long time, even if they are bullied at school, there is no one to tell and no one to rely on, which may lead to some children becoming more and more extreme. They will no longer like to share their daily life with their parents, nor do they like to be disturbed by others. They will easily become more and more inferior and sensitive, and like to be alone.

School can't be controlled ● It's not obvious to let children live in school too early, which will help their academic performance. Parents always think that letting their children live in school will give them more time to study, but in fact, it's not obvious to let their children go to boarding schools and live in school too early. Although the students who stay in the dormitory say that they stay in school for a long time and study for a longer time every day, it doesn't mean that they really have learning efficiency.

▼ Some children leave their parents' control and have no self-control. Except for class time, the rest of the time may be spent. And some students know that they should take time to study, but in this high-intensity learning environment where classes are self-study every day, they are already out of breath. Excessive pressure is not conducive to the improvement of their grades. Students who don't live in school can travel between home and school. Although it is said that some time is wasted in the middle of the journey, they can eat well and sleep well, so they can have time to relax themselves. You can also chat with your parents when you go home. If you have any problems that you can't handle, you can also ask your parents. After all, parents are the people you trust most. Then these are all factors that are conducive to the healthy growth of children, and their academic achievements are not necessarily worse than those of students who live on campus. Whether children live in school or not, parents should consider in many aspects: ● If the home is really too far away from school and must live in school, parents should pay more attention to their children's concern, or call their children every day to find out their inner thoughts. ● Let the children know that even if they live on campus, their parents still love and care about themselves, so that they will not feel lonely.