Talk to reporters in a fucking way

(A) only humorously express the parenting process

Reporter: Some people think that Chinese mothers are more educated than American mothers?

Cai: Actually, some media reports are taken out of context. I have been clarifying recently that I disciplined two children with Chinese education and recorded this experience, that's all. Some words used in it seem harsh, but they actually want to express this parenting process humorously.

(2) "Do you have a better education method?"

Reporter: How do you educate your daughter severely?

Cai: I won't allow them to get below A in any subject. My eldest daughter Sophia won the second place in a multiplication oral exam in the fifth grade. Next, I asked her to do 20 papers every night, each with a quick calculation problem of 100, and I held a stopwatch to time. After a week of intensive training, Sophia won the first place every time. Lulu, the youngest daughter, didn't do extra points in an exam. I told her that children with good family education should get extra points. It is these real scores that distinguish Excellence from mediocrity.

Reporter: Does your husband agree with you to do this? Cai: My husband told me not to be too strict. I signed an agreement with him not to interfere with my Chinese education for my children. I asked him, do you have a better education method? No, please cooperate with me.

Reporter: What is the effect of this kind of education?

Cai: Both daughters got A's in all subjects. Sophia learned the alphabet in 18 months, read Little Women at the age of 3, and began to play the piano. /kloc-When she was 0/4 years old, she played the piano in Carnegie Hall.

Lulu practiced the violin and became the principal violinist of Yale Youth Orchestra at the age of 12. As an adult, Lulu changed to play tennis, and the referee commented that she was "a little girl who never gave up without making 1 10% efforts".

(3) Let her do what she really likes when she grows up.

Reporter: Some people don't understand that you don't let your daughter attend the party.

Cai: I don't attend playmate parties, because time is precious, which will delay the practice time. Once, Sophia kept begging her to go to her best friend's birthday party, but I relented and agreed. But when she got home the next morning, she was in no mood to practice the piano. Only after questioning did she know that she had been listening to a classmate talk about her mysterious sexual attempt all night. I regret letting my children attend such a bad party. I don't think it is necessary for children to make mistakes before studying.

Reporter: Will you back down?

Cai: It depends. Once we traveled to Russia. In a cafe, I asked Lulu to taste a caviar, but she didn't agree. In the face of my insistence, she frantically called me horrible. She grabbed the cups and smashed them on the floor, vowing that if I didn't leave her alone, she would smash all the cups.

I finally understand that when she grows up, I should give her some choices. There will be many such things in the future. For example, I agree with Lulu to resign as the chief violinist and play her favorite tennis. (d) I want to break the curse that three generations of Asians are not rich.

Reporter: What makes you so strict with your daughter?

Cai: In the United States, Asian immigrants have the curse of "three generations are not rich": one generation of immigrants finally realized the "American dream", saved every penny they earned and devoted great energy to their children's education. The second generation of immigrants is relatively excellent because of the huge investment of their parents, but the education of their children is not too strict. The life of the third generation immigrants is very comfortable. A group of friends with B+ scores believe that individual rights are protected by the Constitution, and they will go downhill if they are unwilling to work hard.

I am a second-generation immigrant and want to break the "curse" of three generations of Asians who are not rich.

Reporter: Everyone is worried that strict education will take away children's happy childhood.

Cai: We will also study in bed and cook creative Chinese food together. Husband will lead the family to travel by bike, teach children to swim, play poker and read literature.

Reporter: In retrospect, is there anything you don't like?

Cai: I believe my children will understand me eventually.

Reporter: Do you have any opinions for reference?

Cai: Personally, I think that western education places too much emphasis on creativity, while China education places too much emphasis on discipline and hard work. In fact, the two educational methods should achieve an ideal balance, and children will grow up as we expect.