Migrate with elders

1, discuss with elders

If there are more sensible old people, grandparents, or grandparents at home, tell them about their parents-in-law's divorce and discuss with them what to do. Because they are elders after all, they will have their own views and methods on this matter and may give you some guiding opinions.

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2. Know the general reasons for their divorce.

Don't panic when you hear that your parents-in-law are getting divorced. It is best to find out why they want to divorce, because they will not divorce easily unless they have to. If the in-laws are cheating each other and want to get rid of each other early, then they must be in a hurry for divorce. Therefore, it is necessary to find out the reasons for their divorce. If it's just for the trivial things in life, it can still be reconciled. After all, two people have been married for so many years, even if there is no love, there is affection.

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If one party doesn't know how to cherish, but only knows how to enjoy, then don't try to reconcile them, because such a long-term marriage is also a kind of torture. If there is a misunderstanding between them, then we should try our best to reconcile them and help them solve this misunderstanding, even if it is possible.

3. Be the "umbrella" for the weak in marriage.

If a woman is forced to divorce, it means that this marriage is really a kind of torture for her. If you and your wife should protect your mother-in-law at this time, if you don't, then such a marriage is the biggest failure for a woman, and your mother-in-law may collapse at her last line of defense. Therefore, you should be the umbrella of the weak in marriage, at least let the "weak" know that even if your marriage is unfortunate, there is still you.