Winter vacation experience and feelings composition

Holiday Experience The Spring Festival holiday is coming to an end soon! Thinking of what I saw during the Chinese New Year, when I lamented the endless rapid changes in the world, I also lamented the long-standing and profound folk customs! No matter how foreign culture flows into our country, the strong folk customs will always make people feel warm! Visiting Relatives and Treating Guests A few years ago, people began to be busy celebrating the New Year. There was a lot of traffic and a constant flow of people. The flavor of the New Year was still very strong. It was so lively with people coming and going! People who are in a hurry to go home are busy with routine and unchangeable local customs before they can get rid of their tired look. No matter how far they are from home, no matter how busy they are with study and work, or how long they have been away from their hometown, they rush home to reunite with their relatives at this time of reunion. The deep family affection of the Chinese nation is something that no other nation in the world can achieve and sincerely envy. During the Chinese New Year, it is indispensable to visit relatives and entertain guests. We salarymen usually get rid of all our relatives before the end of the year. Because after the Chinese New Year, relatives from the countryside will come one after another, so you can only wait for the arrival of the guests at home. Generally, if there are elderly people at home, there will be many relatives from the countryside. Even in rural areas, the custom of visiting relatives to pay New Year's greetings is still retained after the New Year. There is also a custom that the New Year is not celebrated until the first lunar month. If there is really no time before or after the New Year, take time to visit relatives before the fifteenth day of the first lunar month or before the first lunar month. There are many cases like this. It is inevitable to bring gifts when visiting relatives, but courtesy reciprocates. Each family has many gifts to give out and many to receive. Therefore, I don’t know how long it will take to actually get this gift. Sometimes a box of snacks is already moldy when I open it. Fortunately, it can also be used as a starter and will not be wasted. Otherwise, it would be a pity to still drop it! Do housework and show your unique skills to make your family happy. During the Chinese New Year, it is rare to have such a long time to stay at home and do things that you usually don’t have time to do. Cleaning the house and cooking are the most common tasks. Although you can hire a cleaner to do many difficult housework, our family's habit is still to do it ourselves and never hire a cleaner. In people's eyes, a tired body and rough hands seem to prove that you are hardworking, and everyone hates laziness. In fact, if you are really tired, why not let yourself relax? Even if you have such an idea, you won't put it into action. After all, your behavior must be coordinated with the habits around you, otherwise you will lose a lot of good reputation, so be tired! And cooking is something people don’t usually do. When there are guests, it is reasonable and reasonable to go to the restaurant to arrange it. But you can’t do this during the Chinese New Year. People will think that you are not a person of daily living, wasteful and not frugal. Such a reputation will affect the next generation. Besides, many gifts and exchanges involve a lot of food, and if you don't eat it, it will rot. Every New Year's Day, I will make a delicious fish with sweet and sour sauce. The golden fish body is topped with a layer of tomato sauce. It is sweet, sour and crispy. Before the adults can sit down, , the children have swallowed a shaped fish. Adults can only look at the fish bones and "look at the fish and sigh". Children are happy, which is what every adult wants! During the Spring Festival this year, my younger sister’s family went to her hometown in Shandong to celebrate the New Year. The elder sister’s old man was sick again. Therefore, it was relatively deserted this year. My husband and I had to do all the cooking. Guests come almost every day, and our family’s dining table is quite particular about sumptuousness. My parents-in-law are nice people and treat others warmly, so naturally my husband and I don’t dare to improvise. He was choked by the smell of oil smoke and his eyes were filled with tears. Looking at the delicious food on the table, the old man was happy. This is rare. I never make the old people angry. I know their preferences. Therefore, the old people often praise me proudly in front of outsiders. I am very proud! Conflicts will also appear at this reunion time. Relatives and friends usually have little contact and rarely meet. At this leisure and relaxation opportunity, they will get together and talk about their original friendship. The gathering will inevitably involve drinking and playing cards, so as to continue the relationship. emotion. As long as people get together, there will be many different opinions and differences, and conflicts are inevitable. I often hear colleagues and friends say that it is a pity to have conflicts when they rarely meet! But I think this is normal. If people don't come into contact, there will be no differences and no conflicts. As long as conflicts can be adjusted in time, there will be no problem. Life is full of contradictions, and there is nothing to make a fuss about, let alone blame casually. Both incidents were caused by misunderstandings. One of them was the instant conflict between my mother-in-law and my eldest sister. Due to a misunderstanding, the elder sister did not understand what the old man meant. We quickly calmed down their anger in front of relatives in our hometown. My eldest sister shed tears when she left the house. We usually have a good relationship and feel sorry for her. She went to work when she got home. After working for most of the day, she had no food. After eating well, I walked away feeling aggrieved. Naturally, I communicated a lot with my eldest sister, and she figured it out first and called her mother-in-law to apologize! After all, mother and daughter have a deep love and conflicts are easy to resolve. Relatives and friends move around, and many families dine in restaurants. In places that are usually very lively but not noisy, quarrels arouse people's curiosity. If you listen carefully, you will find that it is an argument between family members or friends. Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite! It's normal to have conflicts. The absence of conflicts means they don't care about each other. Therefore, trying to understand the conflicting parties as much as possible will help ensure the happy continuation of the family relationship in the future. It’s very sad to have relatives who turn against each other! If you’re celebrating Chinese New Year, don’t get sick if you gather together! Phone calls, messages, and emotions. During the Chinese New Year, what I feel most deeply is probably the emotions conveyed by phone calls and messages. Everyone has this deep experience. Information congestion and busy phone lines have become the most troublesome problems these days. It is common for information not to be received and phone calls not to be made.

What moved me the most was New Year's Eve, when the New Year's bell was about to ring and after the midnight bell, a large number of messages came in, making me dizzy and busy. Many old and new friends and relatives expressed their deepest blessings through phone calls and messages, and so did I. The daughter was so tired that she was shouting for her father to send messages. No wonder, her father had nearly fifty phone numbers with one stroke of his pen. Although the content was the same, it would be difficult to send it because the channel seemed not smooth. ! The theme of the New Year's party made my friends and I very excited. We used the phone to convey each other's feelings, which was something we had never experienced before. Her husband works out of town, which is very hard, and he often doesn't come home for a month. She doesn't understand this, and is often angry with her husband, which makes him unable to work effectively. Both husband and wife have talked to me, and I know the reasons for their conflicts. She was very moved when she saw the beautiful theme of the Spring Festival Gala and conveyed to her friends how to get along as husband and wife through messages in a timely manner! Joyful laughter filled their warm home again. Shopping and appreciating folk crafts Shopping is something everyone likes to do. Being bored at home all the time is very boring for busy people, and they hope to get some fresh air. The streets were full of people, walking together in twos and threes. Some are in a hurry, some are busy squeezing the bus or taking a taxi, or some are standing still to watch. I usually go outside for shopping, otherwise I don’t leave the house for a few days, I’m afraid of the cold! What attracts me the most are the folk craftsmen. The exquisite crafts that are made instantly by their skillful hands amaze me, and I admire their dexterity and wisdom even more! Some are weaving grasshoppers, some are blowing candy, and some are writing couplets and painting. Their dedication and work earned them a round of plaudits. The hawking sounds, which are almost inaudible at ordinary times, come and go. It is very lively and feels very fresh. The paper-cut artist's window grilles are even more amazing. The shadows of people or animals appear on the red paper. People can't help but look at them more, and if they like it, they buy it.

As for real window grilles, they are not common here. Maybe you can see them in rural areas? On the contrary, when I went to Tianjin, I saw that every house had window grilles and couplets posted on them. From a distance, the red patches were really beautiful!