Chen de characters experience

15 years ago, he earned more than 2,000 yuan, worked for less than one year, and was dismissed because he was addicted to the Internet.

65438108, the first day after the National Day holiday, an old man in his seventies came to the nanjing xinjiekou Business Circle Joint People's Mediation Committee for help. "You are quick to help my child. He has lived at home for 15 years. " The old man said tearfully.

The old man named Chen Yuan, 78, is a senior intellectual. When I was young, I was busy with my work. At the age of 40, I gave birth to a child named Chen, which means "I hope my son will become a dragon and achieve great things". Because he is a middle-aged son, Chen Yuan and his lover love his son very much. Since childhood, Chen has to open his mouth and reach for clothes.

However, under the strict requirements of his parents, Chen scored very well, from primary school to junior high school to senior high school, and his test scores were among the best.

/kloc-at the age of 0/9, Chen was admitted to Southeast University with high marks to study computer science. At the age of 23, he graduated with honors, and then he was hired as a technician by a high-tech enterprise near Southeast University with a monthly salary of more than 2,000 yuan, which was quite good at that time.

However, the good times did not last long. After working for less than a year, Chen went home and didn't go out. As soon as Chen Yuan knew his company, he knew that Chen was addicted to playing computer games and did nothing during his work, so the company had to let him go home. "I didn't care at the time. When I got home, I scolded Ye Wei a few words. He didn't say anything. He went into his room to play computer. " Chen Yuan sighed and said, I thought my son would stay at home for a few days and then go out to look for a job. Unexpectedly, this stay is 15 years.

You can't live without the Internet.

He never leaves home except buying computer accessories. There was no electricity at home, and he fell and bumped.

After being dismissed by the unit, Chen surfed the Internet in his room every day, and the old couple took care of him wholeheartedly, cooking and washing clothes for him. "We have a lot of retirement wages and some savings at home, so we didn't urge our children to go out to work." Chen Yuan said.

Soon, 1 year passed, and Chen never stepped out of the house except when he needed computer accessories. Sometimes he even asked his mother to send food to his room. This time, Chen Yuan and his wife were in a hurry. "I'm afraid the child is ill."

The old couple took their son to the hospital and had all the examinations. Everything was normal except for the deepening of myopia.

With the passage of time, Chen Yuan began to realize that his son's condition was Internet addiction, and only by staying away from the computer could he return to normal. So the old couple began to think about it. At first, Chen Yuan talked with his son, moved by emotion and understood by reason, but Chen was indifferent. Then, Chen Yuan tried to break his son's computer, such as taking a small part and damaging the power supply. Chen, a computer major, can quickly find faults and eliminate them by himself every time.

In desperation, Chen Yuan made a decisive decision and stopped the internet at home. At this time, Chen was annoyed. He beat at home and asked his father to restore the internet immediately. "He also said that he would not live without surfing the Internet." Chen Yuan said that at that time, the old couple were frightened and quickly resumed the network service at home.

Eat raw potatoes after being deprived of food

Don't want to find a job, don't want to talk about someone. If there is no food, drink cold water and chew raw potatoes.

Hard work is no good. Chen Yuan and his wife did soft work for their son. "It might be better if there is a job that can distract him." Chen Yuan said that he thought so at that time. He took his son's resume to job fairs of all sizes, sent out hundreds of resumes, and received interview notices from many units, including many well-paid large enterprises. However, Chen was indifferent to this and refused to be interviewed.

Chen Yuan and his wife are trying to introduce each other to their son, hoping to distract him from talking about his girlfriend. I don't know, all the girls who went on blind dates ate Chen's door and disappeared.

Seeing that their son didn't eat hard or soft, Chen Yuan and his wife decided to "break food" for their son. At first, Chen didn't eat anything, so he didn't eat either. I was really hungry, so I looked for it at home. He ate up all the food slowly. Finally, Chen even washed and chewed raw potatoes in the kitchen. A meal is a glass of cold water and a raw potato.

This lasted for a week, and the mother felt sorry for her son. She quietly cooked a bowl of egg noodles and took it to his room. Chen doesn't know, but he still has a temper. He said coldly, "I have eaten, and I don't need you to cook." I am still alive. " This made Chen's mother cry.

Chen Yuan is also a stubborn temper. I don't believe he can't cure his son. Two years ago, after careful consideration, he felt that only by cutting off his son's contacts could he cure his son's illness. So, he broke his network cable. Chen quickly found the maintenance staff of the network company. The repairman quickly found the fault. At this time, Chen Yuan quietly pulled the worker aside. "You give me an excuse that this network can't be repaired." Chen Yuan said.

After repeated entreaties, the maintenance worker who learned of Chen's father's difficulties finally agreed to weave this white lie. The maintenance man told Chen that it would take at least a week to repair his home network. Chen had to mope and fall asleep.

Go out to work and be detained.

I finally started a company and was cheated into the police station by my classmates.

After sleeping for two days, Chen's internet addiction came again, but he didn't want to go to the internet cafe, so he went out for a walk. Near Xinjiekou, he met Xu Chuanyuan, a college classmate. Xu Chuanyuan partnered with others to open an intermediary company to help people with immigration procedures. Seeing Chen unhappy, Xu Chuanyuan asked why. "I thought it was a big deal. Tell you what, you can work in the company. I have a computer there, you can play. " When I heard that I could play computer online, Chen Xinran agreed.

After Chen went to work in Xu Chuanyuan Company, he was responsible for some communication and coordination work on the one hand, and continued his online life on the other. Because of his good English, he soon got along well with several visa officers.

After more than two months, Xu Chuanyuan said to Chen, "You are so familiar with the visa officer that I have to follow you in the future. Register a company in your name and I will work for you. I will be fully responsible for some simple procedures for going abroad, and you will come forward when you encounter difficulties. " Chen Ye has no mind's eye. He thought he could spend more time playing computer, so he agreed to Xu Chuanyuan's request.

After that, Xu Chuanyuan was responsible for customer recruitment and finance, and Chen was the nominal legal representative. In August last year, the police suddenly found Chen and thought he was suspected of abetting illegal immigrants. Chen was taken to the police station in a muddle and kept saying "I don't know". It turned out that Xu Chuanyuan had gone through some illegal immigration procedures behind Chen's back. A customer was found in Singapore, and the police tracked Chen all the way.

Chen Yuan and his wife were surprised when they learned that their son was detained. Finally, after investigation, the police found that all this was done by Xu Chuanyuan. But despite this, Chen Yuan still took out a large sum of money and coordinated with the parties before bringing his son back.

Never go out again

"You can't go out, there are liars outside."

After returning home this time, Chen locked himself at home and refused to go out again. He also said all day: "You can't go out, there are liars outside."

Chen Yuan and his wife are even more worried, and their son's situation is not as good as before. They invited a doctor, who told Chen Yuan that Chen's current situation was mild autism. Because Chen is unwilling to cooperate, it is difficult to treat him. Watching himself and his wife grow old day by day, Chen Yuan thought, "What should my son do if my wife and I are gone?" In desperation, he found the Xinjiekou Business Circle Joint People's Mediation Committee for help.

After listening to the old man's narrative, the mediator was embarrassed. After all, Chen has been living in a humble abode for 10 years. After trying to call Chen, the mediator identified himself and said that he wanted to talk to him. I don't know. Chen said "I'm not free" and hung up. The mediator called again, but nobody answered. "He completely shut himself off." Chen Yuan said that he used to ask people across the street to do his son's work, but Chen wouldn't even open the door for him.

After seeing the mediator, Chen Yuan sighed: "It's all our old couple who spoil their children too much." With that, the old man left the Committee alone. (The characters in the text are pseudonyms)

Psychologist "bookworm" is escaping from stress.

According to the staff of Chen Yuanjia's street, it is not uncommon for the post-80s and post-90s to "stay at home" because they can't find a job, but it is the first case for a post-70s family like Chen to stay at home.

Psychologists say that "otaku" avoids interpersonal communication subconsciously and relieves the pressure they feel from the outside world in their inner world. This is a way for them to protect themselves, an escape. If we rely too much on the virtual world, people will gradually get divorced from reality, and the consequences will be very serious. Chen's present situation is a vivid example.