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A single mother, how did she make all her 13 children become doctors? When she was 100 years old, Hillary and Mayor new york personally went to celebrate her birthday?

How did a doctor's father make his six children and five become doctors studying in the United States, 1 become masters? Even Lu Yu himself said, "If I want to have a baby, let him help me." .

How did they bring up such excellent children? Let's learn the true meaning of their education!

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Single mothers have trained 13 doctors.

She is a good family, and she gave up her original value to be a servant in order to support her family.

At the age of 62, in order to obtain immigration qualification, she studied English hard and finally passed the immigration exam.

She has raised 13 children all her life, and all of them have obtained doctoral degrees.

She is an ordinary China native, praised by two presidents (Clinton and Bush) and called her a "great mother".

She was a single mother, raised 13 children and lived to the age of 106.

She is Wang Shuzhen, a great and ordinary mother. She is great because she gave birth to 13 children and trained 13 doctors. She is ordinary because she is unknown, an ordinary housewife and has no career of her own.

Widowed at the age of 40, 13 child, 13 doctor.

Wang Shuzhen was born in 1897, Nantong County, Jiangsu Province. When I was a child, my family was well-off. I went to a girls' middle school and liked poetry and music. I had faith and studied Buddhism since I was a child.

/kloc-When she was 0/9 years old, she married Li Jia, a local rich businessman, and lived a life of caring for her husband and educating her children. At that time, people believed in having more children and gave the Li family eight daughters and five sons. This family lives a life envied by the gods. Then her husband was killed.

Since then, the Li family has lost its pillar, and the whole family has begun to decline. Wang Shuzhen, who lost her husband, was not discouraged. She not only has to feed all 13 children, but also let them go to school and receive a good education.

To this end, she even helps people make a living. In order to support this 13 child to eat, drink and go to school, Wang Shuzhen also tried her best to change from a "good family" and "full-time wife" to a "servant" and "servant".

Taking care of children, washing and cooking, and tutoring music in a rich family, as long as one pair of hands can earn money, she works day and night.

Because living in the suburbs, children go to school in the city, and they have to walk dozens of miles back and forth every day. No matter how difficult it is, Wang Shuzhen never complains. He said to the children emotionally and rationally, "You should be capable and promising in the future."

Wang Shuzhen is very strict with her children, bordering on harshness.

My son Li Changyu became an inspector after graduating from the Police Academy. His salary is very high. However, she said to her son, "You have to continue studying. The master's degree is not enough, and you have to study for a doctor. "

She hopes that her children will become outstanding and top-notch talents as much as possible, not only growing up, but also growing up. Under this educational concept, the Li family has produced 13 doctors, which is absolutely a miracle all over the world!

Daughter Li Xiaofeng (left), Wang Shuzhen (middle) and son Li Changyu (right)

Children are engaged in various industries: researchers, businessmen, designers, engineers, artists, advertisers, securities workers, IT elites and so on. They are:

Of the 13 doctors she trained, 3 won the "Top Ten Outstanding Young People in America". Even President Clinton and President Bush wrote letters praising her on Mother's Day, calling her a "great mother".

The Godson Sutra has only 15 characters.

Wang Shuzhen is very successful in educating children, but the books she teaches her children are only 15 words. This also fully confirms the lesson of our ancestors: the road is simple.

She often tells her children, "Be kind to others, concentrate on things, talk less and do more."

Although it is only 15, it contains four aspects of life. It can be said that the words are rich in meaning and concise.

1, be good to others. Be kind, plant Futian extensively, and make good relationships. This is the first essence of our life. People can be without talent, but they can't be without virtue.

2. concentrate on your work. We should be sincere and respectful. To concentrate on doing your own thing, first of all, you must have a sincerity in what you do, and do it sincerely, without thinking about the return of doing it.

3. Talk less. Be introverted and have self-control, but also avoid arguments. People who talk a lot, on the one hand, tend to offend others unconsciously, and also lay a curse for themselves; On the other hand, talking more and doing less will naturally make people frivolous and superficial.

4. Do more work. People should work hard and turn their ideals and ideas into reality with actions. Doing things is not only a way for us to dream in advance, but also a channel for self-cultivation.

The word 15 contains the only way for our ancestors to educate their descendants. It is worth learning from every parent and everyone.

A China heart.

Although Wang Shuzhen moved to the United States with her family, she still has a China heart in her heart. Usually at home, she communicates with her children and insists on using Jianghuai Mandarin as Rugao dialect. On the one hand, hearing a local accent in a foreign country relieves homesickness; on the other hand, it reminds children not to forget that they are from China.

On her100th birthday, President Clinton, his wife Hillary Clinton and Mayor new york all went to congratulate the old man on "Happy Birthday"! Can have such a high standard of treatment, she got respect!

Mayor of Wang Shuzhen and new york

At the birthday party, the children asked her what gift she wanted, and she said, "I'm going back to build a school for the children in China." In a simple sentence, she expressed her deep love and homesickness for her motherland.

On March 6th, 2003, Wang Shuzhen died in New York, USA, at the age of 106. Born in Guangxu, grew up in the Republic of China, made peace with * * *, and died in AD 2 1 century.

This China old man who has spanned three centuries has given birth to 13 children and trained 13 doctors. Her educational principle of "being kind to others, concentrating on doing things, talking less and doing more" is worth learning from every parent and child in contemporary times.

Take a photo with my son Li Changjue.

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The doctor's father trained

5 Ph.D. students studying in the United States, 1 master.

Cai Xiaoxiao (left) and Lu Yu (right)

There is a father who has six children. He raised every child and put him on the elite road:

1. The eldest son graduated from the graduate school of Hangzhou University and Shanghai Jiaotong University, and then went to the United States to study and obtained a doctorate from Cornell University. At the age of 36, he became the youngest tenured professor at the University of Pennsylvania in the United States, and also served as a thesis reviewer for the National Foundation of the United States. In 2008, he won the "Nobel Prize" in world statistics-"COPPS Presidential Award";

2. The second son 14 years old was admitted to the juvenile class of the University of Science and Technology of China, and was later sent to study in the United States. At the age of 25, he received a doctorate from the University of Rochester. After graduation, he used to be a fund manager on Wall Street, and served as the vice president of Goldman Sachs, the largest company in the United States and known as "Harvard in the financial sector". Now new york runs his own company;

The third son graduated from Beijing Foreign Studies University and was admitted as a doctoral student by St. John's University in the United States. Now he runs an industry in China;

4. The fourth son graduated from West China University of Medical Sciences and was admitted as a doctoral student by Arkansas State University. Now he runs a private hospital in Shanghai.

5. The fifth son is a master of China University of Science and Technology and now works in China Construction Bank;

6. The youngest daughter 14 years old was admitted to the juvenile class of the University of Science and Technology of China, 18 years old studied at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology in the United States, transferred to Harvard University the following year, and obtained a doctorate from Harvard University at the age of 22. Three years later, because of his outstanding achievements in academic research, he was hired as an assistant professor by Harvard University and became a tenured professor at Harvard University in his thirties.

Father's name is Cai Xiaoxiao. He is a doctor, but he says my occupation is my father. If you print a business card, it will definitely be printed on the front: Cai Xiaoxiao Night-Title: Father.

Cai Xiaoxiao wrote a book called My Career is My Father. After the book went on the market, it was sought after by readers and became a best seller of that year. After repeated printing, 6.5438+0.7 million copies were sold.

The book tells a father's parenting ideas and methods, as well as a letter he wrote to his children, which is touching. There is no preaching in the book, it is all parents' arguments. He always faces any problems calmly, without complaining, abandoning or giving up. The method is always much more difficult than it is.

There is no secret to teaching children to become talents, but it is indeed a delicate art and knowledge. Summarizing the experience and experience in the past 30 years is five main points, four attentions and three key words.

Cai Xiaoxiao's family photo.

Five main points

1. Family education must be the education of love;

2. Family education must be a happy education;

3. Keep close communication with children;

4. Teach children to be human first;

The most important thing is persistence: perseverance and perseverance.

Four notes

1. Pay attention to the path that suits you;

2. Both parents must fully cooperate;

3. Parents should seize every key for their children;

4. Family education must closely cooperate with school education.

Three key words

1. Early education, 2. Determination, 3. Self-study

A secret: If you have a dream, there will be a miracle.

When other parents regard the early childhood under the age of three as a stage of ignorance and let their precious intellectual development pass away in vain, we think that obedient children can be taught and early education can be started as soon as possible.

When other parents entrust their five-year-old children to people who don't understand education or enter informal preschool classes, so that their children are infected with many bad habits, we are thinking about how to let their children study early. ...

Cai Xiaoxiao's wife (left), Cai Xiaoxiao's little daughter, Cai Tianxi (middle) and Cai Xiaoxiao's daughter (right)

When other parents find that their children are smart and content with winning certificates in various competitions, we are thinking about how to use our advantages to win time for their children to skip classes or attend juvenile classes.

When other parents find that their children are excellent, they try their best to publicize them everywhere and offer flowers to their children in advance, which increases their psychological pressure in vain, while we try our best to keep their children quiet and calm and let them develop themselves easily according to their wishes in a stress-free environment;

When other parents feel satisfied and gratified that their children's going to college is the final victory, we are encouraging their children to say that going to college is the real beginning of learning;

The above methods can be used for reference, but they cannot be copied, because the specific situation of each family is different, the educational level of each parent is different, and the temperament of each child is different.

In fact, the core keyword of any parent's educational experience is inseparable from these two words: responsibility.

Cai Xiaowan

It is this sense of responsibility that has made him achieve remarkable educational achievements.

Educating children is not about washing dishes and sweeping the floor. If you do more, I will do less. If you do it all, I don't have to do it.

In family education, father and mother perform their respective duties, and no one is indispensable.

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Parents should be role models for their children.

Cai Xiaoxiao, the father of the doctor, gave himself a position: my career is my father. There may be many occupations and titles in a person's life, but the profession of father will never change.

He also did his father's duty to the extreme: in the face of all the children's problems, he was not in a hurry, did not give up, accompanied the children to grow up from the perspective of life, and cultivated them with love.

Start early education as soon as possible, cultivate children's habit of reading early, without giving them pressure, but still stimulate their potential, let them study in a low-key way, and encourage them to go to college is the real beginning of learning. ...

As a single mother, Wang Shuzhen's mother faces life positively and optimistically when facing difficulties, and rushes forward with her children; Let children always be on the road to learning, not only adults, but also talents;

Even if the children are famous, she still teaches them to keep a low profile; Although I am abroad, my heart is attached to my motherland and I don't forget my roots.

All her actions are setting an example for her children, that is, setting an example. Her life has fully demonstrated the essence of China's excellent traditional culture.

Such parents are role models for us to learn.

Although there are thousands of ways to succeed in education, we must understand what the essence of education is.

The essence of education is to do the education of life. To educate from the perspective of life, we will study education deeply and understand life.

Every child is a gift from heaven. Because the child is an empty bottle, a blank sheet of paper, given by parents, and painted by parents.

Parents are originals, children are copies, and families are photocopiers. The child copied all his parents' shortcomings into his life. What kind of people we want our children to be, what kind of people our parents will be.

If we really want to raise children today, we must grow up with them. On the way to growth, life education will get better and better.

I wish all parents in the world can become excellent parents and cultivate excellent talents.