Emotional Crisis of Middle-aged Couples: Why is the biggest problem in marriage not quarreling, but boredom?

When people reach middle age, with the passage of time, couples get tired of getting along and their feelings gradually become dull. As a result, quarrels and frequent cold wars led to divorce. So why do middle-aged couples often have emotional crises, so we know a lot about middle-aged couples. The reasons for their emotional crisis are nothing more than: ignoring each other's feelings, being excluded, in-laws already having conflicts, quarreling between husband and wife, unsatisfied material conditions, unbearable loneliness and infidelity.

Because you have been together for many years, you have changed from love to affection. Most middle-aged couples have crises. Basically because of the lack of communication. The topics between you basically revolve around children, family and daily life. Besides, other topics are basically not discussed, let alone in-depth communication. Sometimes, like the cold war, we must learn to communicate deeply at this time. Dare you say that you know each other? After so many years, how many times have you said your inner feelings?

In addition to the feelings between husband and wife, the midlife crisis has also brought life pressure. Children grow up, parents grow up and start to fail. New immigrants in the workplace gradually emerge and are gradually eliminated. Under this pressure, if there is no feeling of living habits between you, then your relationship will definitely feel tired. Proper living habits can temporarily relieve your stress and relax your nervous nerves. Every anniversary, take appropriate forms to commemorate, so that both sides feel deep love for each other, which is very important to consolidate your emotional relationship. Don't think that an old man is a wife. I think these are unrealistic, and couples who often know life and etiquette are getting happier and happier.

People love each other. I believe many middle-aged couples will encounter a common problem. That's because they are already familiar with each other's things, so they like to criticize their lovers in front of others. This is also the most hurtful marriage relationship. Therefore, middle-aged couples should understand each other's respect even if they are familiar with each other. The more people there are, the more you need to flatter your lover in order to win the favor of the other party. You can criticize, but choose the right time to communicate with the other party according to the time and place, and the other party will accept your criticism.