Why are there so many broken families now?

You may have heard of the word "feminism", but you may not have heard of "pastoral feminism". But in reality, there are too many people under the banner of women's rights, which are actually just pastoral women's rights. Feminism, which originated in the west, originally advocated the values of women's independence. But after it spread to China, it gradually changed its flavor and became an idyllic feminist.

The so-called rural women's rights is the abbreviation of rural women's rights in China, which refers to those who demand equality between men and women, but want men to bear the main responsibility and only seek benefits themselves. These people are unilateral egoists, which run counter to the goal of truly realizing equality of rights between men and women. Calling them rural women's rights in China is also homophonic and satirizes them.

Those who speak out for women's rights don't really want equal and free relationships. Instead, I want my own privilege and think that I am a wayward little princess, and others have to let her go. These women's rights emphasize the maximization of their own interests, rather than the real independence of women and equality between men and women. Instead of trying to realize their ideals, they spread rumors everywhere on the internet and in their lives, destroying other people's family relationships. They not only criticize China men with vicious language, but also try their best to satirize the same women.

For example, an online celebrity said on Weibo that her newborn child should take his father's surname, which immediately attracted a bunch of rural women's rights to ridicule her Weibo. The ironic content turned out to be that this online celebrity became "the sorrow of a patriarchal era." It is shocking to say that "it is an insult to women's rights to let children take their father's surname, and it is an insult to women in China".

These extremely self-interested rural women's rights often have the following characteristics: First, double standards. In short, be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. I only know how to ask for benefits and don't want to take on obligations. They often talk big and cover up their cowardly hearts with tough appearances. Constantly clamoring for men to give women all the benefits such as money.

The second is the inexplicable hatred for all men in China. There was once an online article written by rural women's rights that caused a heated discussion on the Internet, that is, "China men are not good enough for China women", and inexplicably engaged in some gender opposition to attack men for fun.

The third is extreme self-centeredness, believing that women's shortcomings and mistakes should be unconditionally forgiven. They think that as women, they should enjoy life, not work hard, and should forgive their mistakes. If they don't forgive, it is disrespectful to women.

On the surface, rural women's rights hold high the banner that men and women should be equal and cannot materialize women. In fact, subconsciously, they extremely weaken and materialize themselves and seek benefits because of their female identity. Advocating equality on the surface is actually only for self-interest. If someone asks them to pay in return, they immediately start the double standard mode.

Nowadays, in western developed countries, women have already achieved real independence, and they don't depend on anyone to survive, not only economically but also ideologically. On the other hand, some rural women's rights in China have never thought about what they are fighting for, just want men to pay the bill. Once such remuneration fails to meet their requirements, they call it love rat.

What's more, some smart people have seen through the essence of women's rights these days. Instead of persuading them to be good, they use their psychology to start draining themselves and creating economic benefits. For example, Mi Meng and others once published articles on the Internet, vigorously advocating pastoral feminism, engaging in male-female opposition, and calling on women in the family to adopt double standards for their husbands. It has indeed bewitched some women, disturbed some families and affected social harmony. In the end, such a cancer was banned, which is really gratifying.

Unfortunately, however, there are still many women living in articles about rural women's rights on the Internet. After reading these articles, they take it for granted that they are princesses, and the disappointments in reality make them feel very painful and even betray their families.

It is precisely because of this unhealthy atmosphere that many women who don't know the truth fall into it, thinking that they have joined the team fighting for women's rights, but they don't know that they have become a tool for others to collect money until they destroy their families, and then they regret it.

These so-called rural women's rights are actually extremely cowardly in real life, but they are just venting their dissatisfaction on the Internet, which is not only useless, but also makes people laugh. Truly independent feminists are busy with their own careers, making money to support their families and honoring their parents, while those rural feminists in feminist cloaks are squeezing their loved ones crazily. Be alert to these "rural women's rights" and protect your family.