How to treat the unfair treatment during studying in Canada correctly

Among many students and parents who study in Canada, many people will encounter some unfair treatment in their lives in Canada. So how should we treat and deal with these situations? Will people studying abroad be affected by this? Discrimination? And then what? In fact, many times, everyone's experience is not necessarily? Discrimination? As long as we have a correct attitude and treat everything honestly, we can eliminate some negative effects. I read an article on the Internet these days, written by a Chinese mother who just immigrated to Canada. The mother asked the teacher why her son paid the money, but the school teacher refused to let him have breakfast and take a photo with Santa Claus. After knowing that the child may have made a mistake, the teacher agreed to refund the money and apologize to the child. However, Chinese mothers think that things can't just go away. The child was seriously injured and didn't eat all morning. You can't just refund the money and apologize. We must tell the school the reason, and then write to the headmaster to ask for an explanation. But the headmaster only said that such a thing was just an apology. The mother thought she had been discriminated against, so she wrote a letter for her compatriots to comment on her. The title of the article is: Is it enough to say sorry for the experience of discrimination? After reading this article, I think it is really inappropriate for school teachers to make such mistakes. When the child is hurt, the mother's anger is also very understandable. But I don't think this is discrimination. This kind of thing can happen anywhere. Imagine if it happened in China, I don't think my mother would think it was discrimination, but just that the teacher was irresponsible. ? Discrimination? What is this? Is it a lingua franca? Look down on? . Spoken English was seldom used in the past? Discrimination? , just say look down upon. The despised party is usually the disadvantaged group. What I heard in China before is that Beijingers look down on locals, Shanghainese look down on people who can't speak Shanghainese, and city people look down on rural people. After going abroad, when you go abroad, no matter you are a Beijinger, a Shanghainese, an urban person or a rural person, you become a China person, so foreigners discriminate against China people. Of course, this foreigner does not mean all foreigners, and the foreigners here do not include people from countries worse than us. For example, we have hardly heard that Vietnamese, Cubans and Pakistanis discriminate against China people. Even though there are many Canadians and Indians are not good to us, we don't think they are discriminating against us. We just think they are not good. Why? Because we don't think they are more advanced and richer than us. They are not qualified to discriminate against us, nor can they discriminate against us. So, you think you suffered? Discrimination? To a great extent, people who are discriminated against put themselves in a weak position. It's just that when immigrants come to a more progressive country, it's easy to think of themselves as a vulnerable group in this society. Without a job, no friends, no language and different living environment, I naturally suffered some unfair treatment, thinking that others discriminated against me. Actually, we don't have to think so. Being able to immigrate to Canada shows that you are still capable. Don't think that we are worse than the locals. Their English is better than ours. We have a good education and a good professional background. Besides English, we can also speak Chinese. As long as you don't underestimate yourself, be modest and adjust your mentality, maybe you will come to a different conclusion when I want to see the problem. Let's go back to the above question. In fact, if this happened in China, if the mother was not from the countryside to the city, but an ordinary person who grew up in this city, and her son paid the money, but the teacher didn't cook breakfast for her, she would still be angry, but she would certainly not be involved? Discrimination? Come on up. Why is it considered discrimination here? Because they are new immigrants, some Canadians think that they will discriminate against new immigrants. In fact, maybe the teacher doesn't think you are a new immigrant here. There are many immigrants in Canada, and thousands of people immigrate here every year. I think teachers have long been used to it. I don't think you can't afford four yuan for breakfast. As for why I forgot, I can only say that it was the teacher's work mistake. There should be nothing in it. It is impossible to say that the teacher deliberately refused to give breakfast to the children of new immigrants. What is even more ridiculous is that the teacher will take up these four dollars. Of course, it's the teacher's fault, but if he refunds the money and says sorry to the child, as long as he is sincere, if it is me, I think it is acceptable. Because everyone makes mistakes sometimes. There are some things that the other party may not intentionally discriminate, just us? Too sensitive? Yes New immigrants don't put themselves in the position of the weak and meet some similar ones? Discrimination? Maybe you won't be so angry if you have a problem. After all, the feeling of being discriminated against is uncomfortable. Of course, if you are really discriminated against, don't be timid. We can use the law to protect us and confirm that we have been discriminated against. If there is real evidence, we can sue him, so an apology is not enough.