What does the old saying "Don't help three times, don't eat three meals, don't spend San Qian" mean?

If you don't help three people, it means that some friends borrow money from you to do improper things. If you don't help others beyond your ability, don't get involved in their feelings. If you borrow money, you become an accomplice, which is unacceptable. If someone asks you for help, don't say yes if you can't do it. If you don't do it when you can, there will be a gap between two people. Don't be greedy when quarreling with other couples, otherwise success is not a failure, and it is not good both inside and outside.

Not eating three meals means that people will be looked down upon if they don't eat soft meals; Don't eat leftovers, start a business without picking up bones left by others; Don't eat for free, just eating without working can't become an atmosphere, and people will resent it. Nothing for nothing. They are responsible for the success of others. You do nothing, go with the flow, have no ideas of your own, and you won't achieve much in the end.

If you don't spend San Qian, you mean spend your own money, which doesn't belong to you. Don't be greedy for money from unknown sources, and don't predict future property. If you spend the money you earn, you will feel at ease. You knew you would spend other people's money. If one day someone doesn't give it to you, you lose the capital to live. Therefore, we should be self-reliant and self-sufficient, save more money, and have emergency money when we encounter problems, instead of spending our own pension. If you spend all your pension now, you will starve to death when you are old and have no job.

In fact, this sentence contains the truth that teaches us to be human. It is better to rely on yourself than on others. No matter what happens to you, you are the only one who can rely on everyone to run. This sentence is very applicable in both ancient and modern times. Only by working hard, the future will be beautiful, and it is useless to sit back and enjoy the achievements.