My parents are against studying abroad. Should I give up studying abroad?

Studying abroad has advantages and disadvantages. Parents object to their worries and worries. They should look carefully and weigh the pros and cons according to their actual situation before making a decision.

Benefits of studying abroad:

1, after going out for a few years, you can first enjoy the beautiful scenery abroad and broaden your horizons, and after living and working abroad for a few years, you may have advanced ideas from western countries, which will undoubtedly have a far-reaching impact on your life and work.

Secondly, after going abroad, you will get rid of some bad habits, such as procrastination and laziness, lack of time concept, etc. Your moral quality will also be greatly improved. At least, like some people in China, you won't spit everywhere, jaywalk, throw batteries and white garbage everywhere. Of course, maybe he was very cultured before he went out.

Going abroad is an excellent exercise for perseverance and independent living ability. Can cultivate the spirit of suffering well. Maybe going abroad for a few years will give you such tenacious quality for a lifetime.

4, with a good foreign diploma and real skills, there is nothing to worry about in this life!

5, practicing an authentic foreign language, the future is boundless!

6, maybe you can earn back a sum of dollars, euros or pounds, which can be the original accumulation before starting a business!

7. Maybe you immigrated and lived a happy life in a sense.

Maybe you can become a business representative of a foreign company in China, get a foreign salary and live in China. Poverty is hard!

9. After just a few years of hard work abroad, you can enjoy a stable high income from now on. This is a dream that others will never realize!

10, if it's a man and he has ambitions in all directions, he should take advantage of this youth to hone himself and then make a great career. What a glory! If she is a woman, her price will naturally increase after going abroad for gold plating. In the traditional sense, it is also doomed that her husband must be rich, educated, powerful or influential, and will live a rich or high-end life!

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Disadvantages of studying abroad:

1, first of all, this is a kind of gambling, gambling on youth, gambling on parents' expectations, gambling on parents' life savings (except for the rich), which will make them feel great pressure, and they will spend several years under this pressure!

Life abroad may be very different from what you think. Many European countries are sparsely populated, with deserted streets and low bungalows. The appearance of the city is not as good as that of China, and even looks like the countryside!

3. The high consumption abroad often makes people feel ashamed, and they always pick the bargains that others can't see.

4. I am not used to it everywhere in my life.

You will find it difficult to integrate into foreign students and their lives.

6. There is no doubt that the poor are often disrespected everywhere. In foreign countries, the status is lower than others. Of course, this is not absolute.

7. Some foreigners have strong xenophobia.

8. Foreign universities combine leniency with severity, and they will find that graduation is always so difficult, and sometimes they even think of giving up.

9. The most difficult thing to overcome is deep homesickness and loneliness. Few overseas students have never cried. What a painful feeling it is when you study hard but can't keep up, when you work hard but are mercilessly humiliated by your boss, when you go home and complain when you are full, only to find that your wallet is lost, especially when you are ill and only stay alone in a small room, when your mother calls and laughs and says, "Mom, everything is fine here, don't worry"!

10, after you come back, you will find that all your friends have their own ideal jobs and families, except for a diploma, and everything has to start from scratch ... At this time, you may feel that your aggressiveness when you were young is gone, and even envy others for their stable and plain life. Although they are not very rich, they are happy!