What kind of experience is it to be alone in a foreign land?

The so-called "foreign land" should be said to be a short-term phenomenon, or a nostalgia. To paraphrase Lu Xun, there is no foreign land in the world. Stay for a long time, and you will become your hometown. Since we want to discuss the experience of a foreign land, it is exactly the experience of "first arrival" in a foreign land. If the topic coincides with the first arrival in a foreign land, I hope to ease my mood.

When it comes to a foreign land, people are full of melancholy, as if people don't want to go to a foreign land. At present, this is the thinking of the ancients. Otherwise, so many people go home in Spring Festival travel rush, aren't they all going to a foreign land? Otherwise, how many China people have emigrated? The so-called foreign land experience, in the final analysis, is just a change of environment, but some people react greatly and some people don't care. We're talking about people who are more reactive. What's their reaction? Let's experience it together.

In a foreign land, a new environment and a strange crowd, I feel that I have no dependence in a foreign land. I looked for a job for a few days, but I couldn't find a job. When I saw beggars in the street, I felt inexplicably lost at the crossroads of my life. Living in a foreign land is very helpless and sad. Famous cars shuttle through the streets, and colorful men and women come and go. Idle people in that park enjoy the endless fun of life, and the towering tall buildings are majestic and tall. All this has nothing to do with you, and I feel sad in my heart.

This kind of experience is often experienced by young people who have just come to the city from the countryside. What kind of psychology will they have after working for a year or two?

"A person is a stranger in a foreign land and misses his relatives on holidays." This is a famous sentence in the famous Tang Dynasty poet Wang Wei's masterpiece "Thinking of My Shandong Brothers in the Mountain Festival". You are wandering, struggling, and unable to reunite with your family. Every family is celebrating the National Day. How can you not want to get married and start a family? So life is a difficult choice, but in order to live better in the future, we can only reluctantly give up what we love. I got together with my colleagues in a "foreign land" and talked about all kinds of gossip between cups and lamps, so I couldn't hide my flashing expression when I saw the full moon outside the window.

Living in a foreign land is not easy, but after a few years, I got used to it. Accustomed to going back to my hometown, it is a bit strange to find that my family has changed so much. At this time, there will be a tangle of "where is hometown". In the next few years, the concept of "going home" became vague, and going home became "visiting relatives"