Why is life goal so important?

In life, if you want to achieve something, you must set goals. Do you know what you really need and how to achieve it? Do you have to have a goal? Experts point out that compared with people who have no plans for the future, people who spend time thinking about the future, writing down plans and working towards established goals are more satisfied, more confident, less stressed and anxious, perform better and happier, and have higher satisfaction in various satisfaction tests. But everything is difficult at the beginning. Our friends and colleagues can achieve the expected goal, why can't we? Experts believe that what makes us hesitate is the fear of failure. Not every goal can be achieved. What if it doesn't come true? But few people think from another angle: if you don't set goals, you will never succeed! People who have no goals and plans can't succeed. In fact, through hard work, everyone can achieve their goals. Don't you believe it? Have you ever planned to spend your holiday by the sunny seaside? Have you ever written a shopping list and bought what you want in the supermarket? If you do this often, congratulations! You can be a successful person who is good at making plans! Just like writing a shopping list, we often make plans unintentionally to achieve the expected goals. What we have to do is to turn the unconscious into a planned action. To achieve your goal, you need to have a goal first. Sounds simple, right? But how to turn the goal into reality? Most people say to themselves, "I will study English well when I have time, I will take my family on vacation when I have time, and I will …" Time goes by, but we still stay where we are. In a step-by-step routine, spend half an hour asking yourself what you really like to do, and then set goals. Once you have a goal, you can work hard in this direction. Experts pointed out that the goal must be reasonable. The goal of many women is to lose weight, which is vague. Who really wants to taste the taste of not eating or drinking? We should reset our goals. How to rebuild the target? Ask yourself, "What would I look like if my waistline changed back to 1.9 feet?" This is the dream you really want. Some people think that being thinner will be more attractive, so interpersonal relationships will be improved. Maybe they think they can make greater achievements in their work, or be healthier; If you don't lose weight, these beautiful scenery will disappear. So we should pay attention to this. We find it difficult for people to say the word "goal", so we say to ourselves every day, "Today, I am trying to realize my dream!" If it is no longer difficult to state these goals, it is more likely to move in the established direction. To achieve long-term results, you should write down your goals, add deadlines, and post them where you can see them every day. Psychologists point out that this is very beneficial. In order to achieve our goal, we must concentrate. We may be ambitious when setting goals, but people are human after all, and sometimes other things will distract us, no matter how good our motives are. The deadline is not a threat, but an encouragement. By setting a deadline, we can know more accurately how far we are from success. Now the plan is in your heart. Review once a day. You don't have to achieve your goal by yourself. Tell your friends about your plan and see if they can help you. Generally speaking, people are willing to help others, because helping others is a kind of happiness. Research shows that if the goal of success is always in mind, the brain will think it is feasible and people will take action accordingly. Hu Yue's experience proves that this method is feasible. Hu Yue, 28, works as a manager in an airline. She is eager to find a good man. "It's hard for me to admit this, because it will put me under pressure, and I don't want others to think that I am unwelcome. But once I said this idea out loud, I was surprised to find that it was nothing, but I felt very relaxed. I told all my friends my wish and asked them to introduce me to any man they thought fit. I've been dating men for three months. Although I haven't found my sweetheart yet, I am very happy. I feel that I have gained a lot through hard work. " From dream to reality, you have told everyone your plan, and now it's time to act. The best way to realize the plan is to divide the plan into several small plans, short-term, medium-term and long-term plans, and set a deadline for each plan. That's what my friend Xu Te did: two years ago, she was in financial difficulties, and the bank kept warning her that her credit card was overdrawn. She made up her mind to pay off all debts within 0/2 months, save enough 60,000 yuan, and pay the down payment for the apartment within two years. But to achieve all this, she must make a change. "First of all, I sat down and thought about how to make more money, because I haven't saved any money since I started working," she said. "The place where I work is a restaurant. I like this job, but the restaurant location is not very good, and there are not many customers, so I changed to a restaurant as a manager. It takes more than an hour to go to work now, but I earn a lot, so I quickly paid off the overspent part of my account. Instead of saving money to buy a house bit by bit, I borrowed 50 thousand yuan from my parents and paid the down payment for an apartment. I promised them to pay back the money in installments within two years. My motivation is because I know that I will never have my own house unless I pay my parents back. Another advantage of this is that we meet more often, because I will drive to them at the beginning of each month to pay back the money. " If life can be idealized, we can all achieve our goals. But real life is cruel, and such a story will not happen to everyone. Sometimes achieving a goal is not as simple as going from A to B, the situation is constantly changing, and the plan is always not as fast as changing. If you haven't finished your goal when the deadline approaches, you must take a step back and ask yourself if you are going in the wrong direction. Chad Kay is 28 years old and used to be the head of a furniture company. He found that the goal he set was not what he really needed. "From the age of 18, my goal in life is to become a director of a big company," he said. "I made a whole set of plans for this, including taking a year off to travel to New Zealand. My boss agreed to keep this position for me for one year. One month before the end of the trip, the boss fulfilled his promise and gave me the position I dreamed of. " But the problem is that now he doesn't want to do this job anymore. "After a year in another world, I don't want to take on too many responsibilities, too much money and pressure, and my ambition to be a supervisor has disappeared." Chad Kay revised his life goals. He immigrated to New Zealand, where he lived happily and counted sheep every day (of course, it was not as simple as counting sheep, but he really lived a leisurely life). All experts agree that the most important thing to set a goal is to keep achieving it and use the rest of your life to achieve it. Maybe you realized a dream, but soon realized that there was another dream. Life is such a process of continuous progress. Ruth, who wants to be an artist, has bigger goals now. She will move to new york, where her works will be exhibited in the art gallery. Hopes and dreams change with our own growth. The only question is, how big is your goal?

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