Are there any homosexuals around you? What do you think of them?

? My cousin is gay. She is the same age as me. I went to elementary school and junior high school together, and high school was separated from her. Since then, I have only heard about her from my family or learned about her life from my classmates.

He was very fat in junior high school. At that time, he and I were both tall girls, but because he was fat and looked a little strong, all the boys in the class nicknamed him "Big Man" or called him Daniel. They also dragged him after class to play with boys instead of girls, mocking him for looking like a boy, which caused great pressure and harm to his psychology. When he is playing with girls, because everyone is young and ignorant, he knows to joke around. A girl told him, "Don't play with us. Boys in our class say you are a boy, so you should play with boys. At that time, he was very angry about it and cut all his hair with scissors at home. Then his mother found that there was nothing she could do. " I had to take her to the barber shop and cut her hair short. Later, some even said he was a boy.

One day, he suddenly asked me if I knew how to change my breasts back. Because our junior high school is developing, he hates his long breasts and he begins to feel inferior. He said I was so ugly, what's the use of long breasts? It wasn't long before I found out that her breasts were really retracted. I asked him how he did it. He told me that there are clothes with corsets in the mall, which are very tight and easy to use. Isn't it uncomfortable for me to ask him? He said it was useless for me to have this thing anyway. I might as well let it shrink back. I can be a careless person.

We have little contact since high school, but I was shocked to learn from my junior high school classmates that he changed a lot in high school, with short hair, neutral clothes and no breasts, as if he had a girlfriend. Isn't he a woman? Why do you have a girlfriend? I met him several times during the winter vacation and when I came back for the New Year. I found that he has really changed a lot, that is, he is a boy and he is a handsome boy. Although he is a little fat, he is a complete boy. His mother also said that he brought back a girl from him, saying that she was his good friend, but she often saw them kissing and cuddling in the kitchen. I don't think this is normal. Slowly, I heard that he was gay and fell out with his family.

He became like this, not because she was such a person since she was a child, but because he was influenced by the environment, excluded by others, and attacked by language, which made her feel inferior and psychologically stressed, and began to change her sexual orientation and habits. Perhaps, he thinks that only by truly becoming a man can he be respected by others.

Therefore, I always have an objective attitude towards homosexuals, and even have some sympathy for them. I don't believe that they are born gay, and they will change themselves and become different from others only after being excluded or even ridiculed in the later stage. People should know how to respect each other, no matter how old or young, so when you treat homosexuals, if you can, give them some care and don't exclude them. For some children who are a little ugly since childhood, don't talk about them, don't ridicule them, and give them some respect, because maybe at that childhood stage, others' views and opinions on him will affect his future development.