The blind date arranged by parents needs AA system. Is it worth dating?

First of all, let's find out what a blind date is.

Blind date is also called "seeing each other". Folk marriage etiquette of Han nationality. That is, after the marriage negotiation stage is changed, the matchmaker will contact and arrange to meet, and the two sides will meet face to face. Dating ceremonies in previous dynasties were similar. In the old society, men and women did not know each other, but were arranged by their parents. It was through the matchmaker that two strangers were invited together. On the day of meeting, both men and women pay special attention to their personal image and try to leave a good impression on each other. On the day of blind date, the woman's family also attaches great importance to it. Clean up thoroughly, make a window bright and clean, clean inside and outside, and the girl should dress up. At the same time, she will invite her brother-in-law and seven aunts to accompany her, and let them give their opinions as a reference for whether they can get engaged.

Today's blind date, the matchmaker is basically her relatives and friends, and the original professional matchmaker has basically disappeared on the stage of history. Nowadays, blind date is basically that men and women meet and have dinner together. Let's find out first and then decide whether to continue dating.

Gao is right, blind date has nothing to do with buying and selling. A man and a woman will definitely not go on blind dates. Paying the bill is the minimum quality and accomplishment. Paying the bill will not let you know, let alone let the other party know how much it costs, which will make people very comfortable.

But since everyone is an adult, it is normal to go out to eat. When I go out to eat with friends, it is AA system, let alone a stranger.

It's my kindness to invite you to dinner; It's natural that I don't invite you to dinner. Why morally kidnap blind date?

I think, I think, girls should not hold the mentality that boys must pay the bill, let alone take the opportunity to kill the man, and the man should not deliberately haggle over the cost. You know, girls don't like stingy boys very much Therefore, for the first blind date, it is best to choose a quiet, comfortable and easy-to-talk place, such as some mid-range restaurants or cafes, to facilitate communication and understanding, and not to spend too much. Even if the blind date is unsuccessful, there will not be too much financial burden.

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