Go abroad, emigrate,

Your situation is very troublesome. If you say you have a degree, you can continue to study as a graduate student or a doctor. You have a child here, too.

You must pass the English standard exam. Whether you are coming to work or something, English is the most basic knowledge.

Visa is a problem. You have to take such a big risk if you want to sneak into the country. Will the children join you? The child has suffered too much.

If you work, children can't stay at home alone, and day care abroad is so expensive. Is there no food or drink? You have to pay rent or something.

Unless you come here yourself and pick up the children after completing your identity, it is impossible to guarantee that you will be separated from your children in a year or two. It depends on whether you can get through the court or how long it will take.

Do you think this is worth it? Shortcuts are not so easy to take. If you want to think clearly, you can't go back to see your children if you miss them, and no one can tell you no matter how hard you try.