Sense of purpose—the most important gain in 2017

The sense of purpose is the most important thing that a person who is determined to grow should review and summarize at all times. Your goals can be big goals, small goals, mid- to long-term goals, short-term goals, or even specific to one thing or one person. Before you do it, think about: "What is my goal?"

< p> In more than 2 years of listening to "Luo Ji Thinking", the 192nd issue "The Logic of the Weak" is one of the issues that impressed me deeply. Luo Fat summed up his views at the end: "A person should live with a sense of purpose. If you have a goal, the whole world is your resource. In the process of walking, you will be nourished every step of the way, even if you do Wrong; if you don’t have a sense of purpose, the whole world will harm you, and you will always accumulate toxins in the process of stress response, even if you do the right thing. Luo Pang's words completely summarize it. It can be said that the sense of goal summarizes a person's principles and methodology of doing things.

It is equivalent to the anchoring point and compass for all your actions. Once a person loses his goal or the goal is not clear, he will fall into slackness and confusion, and then the waste of life will begin. When making choices, we often need goal guidance.

At the end of 2017, I also made a choice in my life and career. I was borrowed by a department of my superior unit. My future was unknown, and I even chose two different career development paths. Some people praised this choice, while others criticized it, because it directly disrupted my original life rhythm, reduced my cash income, and caused a lot of trivial matters to take up your time at work. Many people were even unwilling to accept this job.

At this time, I will ask myself:

What is most important to me, is there anything more important than this? Is there really nothing more important than this? Why do I think it's most important? What values ??of mine does it involve?

Next, I will naturally ask myself, what is my goal? Where is my life going? Where do I aspire, and what can I achieve?

I just hope that there will be more possibilities in life, and I don’t want to look at a mountain from sunrise to sunset all day long. I hope to connect with more interesting souls and see the lives of more outstanding people, rather than the life of "wife and children on the hot bed". Then, there is no doubt that going to a larger place, getting rid of the original isolated living state, and interacting and collaborating with other individuals at a high frequency is urbanization for individuals. Urbanization must be a kind of progress, at least like a city The first generation of immigrants started to blaze new trails and start businesses. If they can take root and survive, they will set a good example for their descendants.

Once you have a sense of purpose, you will not be easily deterred by other people's words. For example, if someone says, "No one wants to be in your position, and no one wants to do this position." I will rationally analyze: From what perspective does he/she stand? If I were a formal employee of this unit, would I be willing to do this position? Why are other positions better than this position? What are the demands of other regular employees? What are the considerations of profit and loss in their choice?

Looking back on myself, I am just like Luo Fat said China was 30 years ago.

My goal is to rise, to be rich and strong, even if it is dirty and tiring work, I will do it, because I know what I want and I have my own goals.

A person comes to a big company or a big city. On the surface, the company is strong and you are weak: If you just work to earn some money, you will never be able to afford a house in a big city in China. In fact, I have my goals, and the company has its goals. The two goals play together. I participate in his goals with my own goals. I am here to show your business growth, and you help me grow personally. I am here to show my business ability to the entire market. Maybe my personal ability will grow in society, maybe I will start a business. I will cooperate with strong people in this process. Is it cost-effective or not?

So, when everyone takes action, they must know what they want?

1. It needs a platform to achieve personal growth and demonstrate value; 2. It needs a city to effectively connect individuals with more people.

Life and work are concrete. Every time you encounter a small thing, do an important thing carefully, and you must understand:

What you want to get, the premise is to know what you want, my small thing and the big goal Relationship, what am I doing? Is it easy to do it? What should I do if I can’t do it? Are the costs of failure high? What will it cost me, what will I lose, and what will I gain? All these must be thought through clearly, and only then can we have a system, rules and determination to do it.

Of course, staying in a big city only opens up a possibility, because whether you can achieve your goals depends on practice. It is impossible to achieve your goals just by living a "two points and one line" life.

How much you practice will be reflected back to you by reality. Many of these feedbacks will not be realized in time. It tests your patience and persistence. Fortunately, I am a person who lives in the future, and I have enough patience to achieve growth again and again.

After waiting and watching for a year, I recently chose to join the "007 Write or Be Out" program, planning to write an article in 7 days and go to Antarctica with my comrades in 7 years.

Maybe this idea is crazy, but you only live once, so why not have a crazy dream, just in case it comes true?

Do you have your own goals? What stage are you at now, or do you have any crazy ideas? I hope you can tell me and let’s work together~