My two boyfriends are going abroad and may not come back, but now we are reluctant to break up, what should I do?

You have to know that love is actually not an eternal thing. What is shown in TV series is all the naive fantasy of the playwright, which is higher than reality. Unless you and your boyfriend both yearn for pure platonic love and are very determined to pursue it, in general, for a long-lasting relationship, both parties must be together, interact and communicate, and the relationship can last. In a situation like your boyfriend's, if your family has to immigrate, there is no other way. Unless you abandon everything in your country and try to go to the same place as him, then your love will be more likely to last longer.

I have an opinion, I don’t know if you agree with it or not. If a person is firmly determined to do something and thinks it is very important, then no other external factors will interfere with him or shake his will. Since your boyfriend has decided to go abroad, going abroad is more important to him than maintaining your love. Otherwise, he can eliminate external factors that interfere with him and work hard to be with you. At least he should make a gesture to let you go with him. If he doesn't, then either he is unable to work hard to maintain your love due to external pressure (such as parents' compulsion) (it's not that he doesn't want to, it's that he can't overcome that kind of pressure), or he doesn't have that feeling in his heart. A desire to work hard to maintain it, and feel that it doesn't matter if we separate. This depends on your understanding of your boyfriend.

If it is the former, then you can think about whether you have the ability (including language, funds to go abroad, whether you can go abroad, whether your parents are willing, etc.) to follow him. If you can, try your best to follow him. Try your best. If you can't, then you'd better consider breaking up now. The long-term pain is worse than the short-term pain. As long as you have a dream, you can continue to pursue it.

If it's the latter, there's no need to make any effort, just get it as soon as possible.

When I say this, I may feel a little cold, but it is true that it is clear to outsiders and I am helping you analyze it from a very objective perspective. I personally think it is a view that will really help you in your future. Hope this helps.

Think carefully about what you want. Is love the most important, or is your future life more important?