What does it mean to be poor when you are young?

It is difficult to buy a lot of money when you are poor. "That is to say, no amount of money can buy the incentives brought by this poverty.

According to the newspaper, Tan, an American who works as a foreign teacher in New Oriental School, wrote an article entitled "Parents in China, is it worthwhile for you to do this? The article said: I met a lady from China. In order to provide a better educational environment for her daughter, she immigrated to Canada alone with her children, while her husband stayed at home. Such a lifestyle is unthinkable for most Americans. One of my colleagues is very excited because his father will pay for his new house. As far as I know, his father is not a millionaire, and buying a new house is a big expense for the elderly. Many parents in China are like this. They scrimped and saved all their money to pay their children's tuition, find a job, buy a house and get married. In contrast, American parents know how to enjoy life better than to sacrifice everything for their children. After I was 18 years old and was able to earn money to pay my tuition, my parents realized their dream and built their own cabin in the mountains. I often receive photos of my parents and share the happiness of living in the mountains with them. When I got married, my parents gave me 30 yuan money and a piece of advice: Couples who are willing to say "I love you", "I'm sorry" and "Please forgive me" will grow old together. Anyway, I have great respect for what China's parents have done for their children. But I still can't help thinking, if the child doesn't need it, is it worth it? Yes, in China, parents born in 1950s and 1960s were mostly poor. Some people mistakenly think that they can't wronged their children any more, so they are willing to spend money on them. Don't you know that it is easy to encourage children's bad habits of laziness, lack of progress and pursuit of enjoyment, which is very harmful to children's physical and mental health?

Gorky said: love children, this is what hens do. But be good at educating children, which is a national event. Educating children requires talent and profound knowledge. How to make children consume not only reflects their parents' consumption view, but also their ideological interest and cultural taste. In this regard, there were many poor teachers in ancient China, and there are countless examples of many disadvantaged talents in modern China.

Ms. Xie Xide, a famous physicist in China, said to her son at the last moment of her life, "I have left nothing in my life, only a bonus of 6.5438+0.5 million yuan. I want to give all this money to the Surface Physics Research Association as a research fund. " All she left her son was the ability to create wealth independently.

Great leader, with great power, but his son Mao returned from studying in the Soviet Union, and was asked to farm in the countryside and work in the factory, and sent him to resist US aggression and aid Korea to defend his country. How noble his feelings are!

Rockefeller Jr., an American oil giant, deserves to be a good example for educating children. He is the first billionaire in the world, with $654.38+0 billion. Rich as he is, he is stingy with his children's pocket money. The pocket money of 30 cents per person per week needs children to spend, save and give alms, so that children can record the purpose, reason and time of every penny in a small account book and check it on weekends. Not only that, he also encourages children to earn money by themselves. For example, killing 100 flies can get 1 cent, and polishing a pair of leather shoes can get 5 cents. He also taught the children to mend their own clothes. It is these strict and effective education that have cultivated children's excellent qualities and laid a good foundation for their future life and career. His five sons all made achievements later, especially the second son, who served as 4 1 US Vice President in 1974.

Some of our parents are so rich and cold, will they get some enlightenment? Today's children are the hope of the future, and their quality is directly related to the future of the country, which requires each of us as parents to improve our cultural literacy and ideological taste. Let children truly understand the truth that "success is due to diligence and luxury, and luxury should stop from adolescence". Especially in the child's growth stage, it is the spiritual wealth and priceless treasure that will be used for the child's life, and it is the true love for the child.

"It's hard to buy a thousand dollars when you are young." Parents, let our children go free, buy the hardships of childhood, train their vigorous wings, and let them fight the storms of life calmly and freely in the future!