The eldest son gave 10 million a year but didn't go home very much. The second son didn't give much money to live together. Who is filial?

My husband is from Beijing, his parents are retired, and he is not short of money. My husband and two brothers, my brother immigrated to America for twenty years, and we are in Beijing.

When we got married, his brother had emigrated, so we bought a wedding room in a community five minutes' walk from my in-laws' house. Although I don't like this community very much, the management is chaotic and the environment is not good. But I can't. In order to take better care of in-laws, this is the only way.

My brother has been a department manager in a well-known company, with a good annual salary, and my sister-in-law has a job after graduating from a doctor's degree. But they never gave their parents a penny. They just made video calls on holidays, and their sister-in-law never appeared in the camera.

In-laws used to take care of their children for half a year and give them living expenses. Last time I saw my mother-in-law giving money to my sister-in-law, she said it was the living expenses during this period, but my sister-in-law took it without pushing it. Now that the children are older, my sister-in-law's parents have also emigrated.

On the contrary, every time I return to China, my in-laws fly around with me, and my in-laws pay for air tickets, hotels and scenic spots. Every time I come back, my in-laws are so tired that they have to wait three to five days to recover.

We are very close to our parents-in-law. On holidays, besides money, we also buy gifts. When we are sick, we ask for leave to go to the hospital to take care of them. Take them out for a trip during the holiday. My mother-in-law and sister-in-law don't have a good relationship. I have to help smooth things over and promote their relationship.

But in-laws still like their eldest son in their bones. Everything the eldest son does is right, and nothing we do is right.

When our child was two years old, we said we would fly to Yunnan to play. They said it was not good to fly so small, so we left by train. There was no high-speed rail at that time. Later, his eldest son's children flew to Switzerland at the age of two, and they told me how great his grandson was. At the age of two, he could fly a long distance without crying or making trouble.

Maybe it smells near, but it smells far. Anyway, do what you have to do and be kind to them as always. Later, my mother-in-law had sinusitis surgery and general anesthesia. We asked for leave and waited outside the operating room. When we came out, we saw the old lady come out like that, holding her mother-in-law's hand and crying. The doctor told her father-in-law that your daughter is really filial.

Later, my mother-in-law said: After this illness, I know that you two are really good to us.

Feelings used to think we were faking it. hahaha