Men not only think you are poor, but also want to take advantage of you.

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Chatting with a man in the financial circle that day, he bluntly said: Women nowadays are too realistic. However, men are also realistic, depending on women's origins and wealth, and making use of their parents' power to get ahead. For example, Zheng Yutong, the boss of Chow Tai Fook.

Women want to find a rich man and someone better than themselves.

I have no house, so I need to find a man with a house.

If you have a house, you should find a man with more rooms.

But on the other hand, men, men actually think you are poor.

In fact, men not only think you are poor, but also want to take advantage of you.

The financier said:

"Of course, Zheng Yutong, the boss of Chow Tai Fook, is also very capable, but if you find a powerful family, it will be even more powerful and lay the foundation."

Yes, Zheng Yutong made his fortune by his father-in-law.

Zheng Yutong began to learn to do things by working as a handyman in a gold shop, which is Chow Tai Fook's predecessor-Chow Tai Fook Gold Shop. Zhou Zhiyuan, the owner of the gold shop, later became his father-in-law.

It only took Zheng Yutong two or three years to get familiar with the operation inside and outside the store. When he was seventeen or eighteen, he was already the boss. At the age of twenty, he went to Hong Kong to establish Chow Tai Fook semicolon and became a real shopkeeper.

Later, Zheng Yutong entered the real estate industry, founded a new world and eventually became a billionaire. It can be said that without his father-in-law, there would be no later Zheng Yutong.

Because of this, Zheng Yutong is different from Hong Kong tycoons such as Stanley Ho, Henry Fok and Lin Baixin. He only has one wife, Zhou, and he often says that he only loves Zhou. And Zhou are very affectionate, and they have two sons and three daughters.

Therefore, Zheng Yutong never changed his wife in his life. Of course, it is said that there is a confidante outside, and he also loves to fuck his daughter.

And I, a girl who is a medical representative, talk about her boyfriend. They have been in love for many years and have never been married or seen a boyfriend.

His boyfriend has good conditions, runs a company, has many social activities and is busy with business. They often meet only once a month.

This girl has a lot to do with the chief doctor of a big hospital. Once, her boyfriend asked him to introduce her and develop his company's business.

This request was flatly rejected by the girl.

The girl said, "I don't want to confuse work with life."

Of course, girls don't really want this feeling of being used.

Later, his boyfriend didn't mention it again, but he must be upset.

However, the relationship between two people is dragged on like this. If you don't break up and get married, it's like having a lover.

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There are many examples in the entertainment circle of borrowing a woman to take the upper position and then ungrateful to abandon her.

Venus revealed that a very popular male star in the entertainment circle didn't have a chance to shoot, so he tried his best to pursue a sister who was older than him and had a wide network in his teenage circle.

When my sister was in hospital, the actor cooked soup in winter and sent it to the hospital himself. My sister was moved to tears.

In order to make the actor appear in the film, the elder sister even knelt down to a director (suspected Zhao Baogang) and begged for a play. The actor was really lucky and became famous after the last play. The actor filmed Zhou Yu's train, having an affair with Gong Li, and immediately became popular.

One day, the actor broke up with his sister, who asked him why. He rolled his eyes and said rudely, do you think we are a good match? What's more, after they broke up, they met in public, but he ignored them and completely pretended not to know each other, which made my sister feel chilling.

After breaking up, male stars became more and more popular and reached the peak of their careers. Needless to say, you know who it is, right? The popular actor is Sun and the elder sister is Ding Jiali.

After the breakup, Sun Yue became more and more popular, but Ding Jiali was unable to take the show for a long time.

In Hongkong, the same versions are Adam Cheng and Fat Shen Dianxia.

When Shen Dianxia introduced Adam Cheng to make movies, he really helped Adam Cheng a lot in his career. They got married after living together for ten years.

By the time Zheng Xinyi was born in 1987, they divorced dramatically a year later.

During Shen Dianxia's pregnancy, Adam Cheng had hooked up with Shangguan Jinghua and eventually divorced.

Adam Cheng is the only man in Feifei's life, and also the favorite person in Feifei's life.

After getting sick, Shen Dianxia also asked Adam Cheng a question: Did you love me?

It is so persistent, so naive.

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Wang Shi's wealth is also inseparable from his father-in-law.

When talking about his first bucket of gold, Wang Shi often mentioned that he sold corn in Shenzhen, but one of the details was very intriguing.

Wang Shi found that the corn from the north of China had to be transported to the south and transshipped from Hongkong, so the price went up. If it can be shipped directly from the north to Shenzhen, it can earn a lot of difference. So Wang Shi went to Guangdong Maritime Safety Administration and asked them to open up the northern route.

But Wang has no money in his hand, so let the other party deliver the goods first and settle the account after half a year. If he is just a poor boy, who will care about him? But he is the son-in-law of the provincial party secretary. All this is different. From April 1983 to February 65438+8 months, Wang Shi earned more than 3 million yuan.

"This is the first bucket of gold I dug in the sea, clean." Wang Shi was quite proud when he mentioned this matter.

This incident tells us the simplest truth: no one can succeed casually.

After Wang Shi became famous, he stayed with Tian Pujun, a third-line actor twenty years younger than himself, and divorced Wang Jiangsui.

This reminds me of Qi Tongwei's words in "In the Name of People".

Qi Tongwei was born in poverty and began to like Yang Chen, the daughter of veteran cadre Chen Yanshi. However, Chen Yanshi was old-fashioned and looked down on Qi Tongwei. Without a position, he disagreed.

This completely angered Qi Tongwei, who turned to chase Liang Lu, who had always admired him. Liang Lu is Qi Tongwei's teacher. Our father is Gao's predecessor.

As a result, Qi Tongwei rose through his relationship with his father-in-law.

After being promoted to a higher position, he put aside his wife and found Gao as his mistress.

A complete baiwenhang.

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Actually, I have my own experience.

At that time, I finished college in Beijing, rented a house, had a turbulent job and had no boyfriend.

At this time, my classmate introduced me to a boy.

This boy and I are both southerners, and our eating habits are the same.

At first, he gave us his phone number and didn't meet. Because boys attend the training of the head office in other places.

So, I communicated with this boy by SMS and email, and I contacted him almost every day. Actually, it was a good chat. We are all looking forward to meeting.

However, several days later, the boy lost contact.

I am curious. Ask some stupid questions.

That boy is also very honest and frank, and said:

I met another girl here, and I think she is more suitable for me.

I am a little disappointed to see this email.

Hopes were dashed.

Fortunately, I haven't met before, so I'm not hurt.

Later, I learned that the boy introduced a local girl in Beijing through a friend. The girl just lost her love and needs to get out of the shadow of it. The boy thinks that the girl has a Beijing hukou, her mother is a doctor and her father is a civil servant, and her family background is good.

In contrast, I am a foreigner and my family is not good. Although I went to college, I am also capable. But compared with my parents' strength, I must have been killed.

So the boy immediately turned around and chased the Beijing girl, and soon got married.

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Years later, I remembered this incident and expressed my understanding of that boy.

It's just a pity that I didn't sum up more reality and lessons from it.

Actually, when a boy has been in love with you for a long time, he refuses to marry you. When it comes to getting married, there will be all kinds of delays and excuses.

Girl, actually, you should think of:

He may think you are poor, not only because you are poor, but also because your family is poor, and even more because you and your family can't help his career.

I still want to borrow a woman and my mother's house.

Maybe it's not that you are not good, but that your family is not good and your comprehensive conditions are not good.

You know, marriage is the union of two families.

Of course, I still admire and praise pure love. There is still love regardless of family, wealth, status and class.

But that's only a handful.

99% of men are more realistic than women.

Girls, please wake up.