Going through the troughs of life

After graduating from college, everyone either went south to become a white-collar worker, or relied on family connections to enter a public institution, a state-owned enterprise, or take the civil service examination. But I had already made plans for the next step.

In the first year after graduating from college, I rented a shop in a small county town in the province and started my career as a small restaurant owner. I really got up earlier than a chicken and did better than a cow. tired. Since I was doing barbecue, I couldn't go to bed until after two in the morning every night.

In order to save labor, I also worked as a waiter. The turnover rate of employees in the catering industry is very high, so I became a generalist in the store, purchasing, marinating, ingredients, grilling skewers... But I also got what I deserved.

The next year, I opened a larger store. Just like this, it started over and over again. Three years after graduation, I had four stores. These four restaurants are barbecue, hot pot, Korean cuisine, and Northeastern farm cuisine.

In the catering industry, every project has its off-peak and peak seasons, but if you open a few more projects, the off-peak and peak seasons will be staggered, and every month of the 12 months in the year will be a peak season.

Compared with my peers, I have lived a brilliant life, with an annual net profit of more than 1 million. I bought a 160-square-meter house with a river view on my own and lived a quality life. I don’t have to go to the store every day because I hire a store manager to manage each store. I live a very uncomfortable life.

While my classmates were still worrying about which company to switch to because they were not doing well in the company, I was considering which stock to buy and whether to invest in the logistics industry. I seemed to get everything my peers wanted and became a so-called success.

But everything seemed to be fine after I returned to school

If I saw Chen Xiao from a distance again

I would immediately avoid her. Now

not only do I dislike her

I think she is disgusting. How could she do such a thing to me? She is not beautiful at all! But Chen Xiao doesn’t seem to mind at all

He always smiles at me from a distance

Her spring-filled eyes

always reminded me of the "first kiss" that night

It made me feel both ashamed and uncomfortable. A few days later

I was walking home from school on the path outside the school

She suddenly appeared in front of me

I wanted to turn around and hide

But it was too late. She grabbed my hand

and said: "Hey! Liang Siqi

Why do you always avoid me? I like you

Does it make you so uncomfortable? "It went so well. I really believe it now. It's easy to start a business, but it's hard to keep it." Starting in 2010, my store began to experience a downturn. I didn't pay attention at first because it was just a small decline in sales, but it was precisely because of my lack of attention that I lost a lot of customers. At the end of 2011, I went bankrupt. The store was sold out and the house was sold. As a result, I still owed hundreds of thousands in debt.

After I graduated from college, I never worked a day, but in order to survive, I had to find a job. Survival was my biggest belief at the time. However, when I discovered that all the jobs I could find were not as well paid as the waiters in my store at the time, I began to doubt my abilities.

In fact, if you just find a job to make a living, it is not that difficult. The difficulty is that I earn 1,500 yuan a month. How many years and months can I pay off the debt of hundreds of thousands? ?Creditors called me every day to demand debts, and some even hired a debt collection agency to beat me up. I had to pay back the money within a time limit, otherwise they would take one of my hands.

It doesn’t matter to me, but my parents suffer the same mental torture as me every day. At that time, I really had this idea for the first time: "Why do you want to start a business? Why not? He went to work like an ordinary person and lived an ordinary life. A Liang went to the Potala Palace at the coldest time of the year. In the photo, he was wrapped in a thick sheepskin blanket and half of his face was wrapped in a dirty blanket. In the scarf. ?Because although we are the most intimate friends when you start a business, he has never mentioned this to me. I am a little regretful and ask, because you failed to start a business, so It’s hurting my family!”

Later, because of a friend’s advice, I wanted to go abroad to pan for gold.

After that, I started to operate quickly, and soon I was on the other side of the earth. After getting to know each other, I added my QQ account and we started chatting. I am a man who is quite curious about other people's marital relationships in bed, so I asked her about those things. She said to me angrily: "If you keep talking nonsense, I've blocked you." I became angry when I heard this, and thought to myself: "I add Q friends not to chase girls, not to find a lover, but to find a lover." It’s just nonsense, otherwise what’s the point of joining QQ?” So I immediately deleted her. But she still kept in touch with me on QQ, but I didn't talk to her often anymore. , in the twilight light of a developed country, her soft voice once again made Shen Hanjiang shiver in his heart. He held on to a calm expression and said with a confused smile: "Okay, I will take you away." Work, make money . You have to work more than 12 hours a day, which is strenuous work, but the reward this country gives you will make you forget all the hard work.

I worked hard, and later, through work and the Internet, I met some local Chinese people. We began to form a group and started to work independently together. The money I earned was several times higher than when I first worked. Times. After I saved enough money to pay off my debts and saved some money for future development, I started thinking about the future.

I can’t stay young forever, and I also envy white-collar workers in suits. However, this country’s immigration policy is extremely tight. Some big brothers have been here for 10 years and still haven’t gotten their status. I I was unwilling to continue like this for the rest of my life, so I decided to return to China and start over.

I paid off all my debts first, and then there was still some left. I decided to study in Japan, started learning Japanese, and started planning my future...

The low point in life, every time Everyone experiences it, but it’s really nothing to be afraid of. When I was bankrupt, the day before I sold my house, I once put one foot across a window of my 20th floor home, ready to jump down to free myself. Her hopes were dashed by me, and she was in extreme pain, but in the end she I still told myself firmly: Since he is dead and his people cannot be found, his body must also be found. After that, she first found his defense lawyer, but the lawyer knew nothing. Unwilling to give up, she went back to prison, checked the prison register, and finally found his love forever after all the hard work. The belated love lasted forever! That was 10 years ago, and now I think of it, the lingering fragrance still lingers on Zhang Jinyu's lips, and the beauty of the green plums by the window. The childhood sweetheart in Zhang Jinyu's heart is named Zhang Yanfeng, a girl who lives in Zhangjiacun with Zhang Jinyu. Since childhood, the two have been childhood sweethearts, often playing together and playing house. Jinyu plays the husband, and Yanfeng plays the wife. Looking at the little adults, an old man said jokingly: "When Jinyu grows up, marry Yanfeng as your mother-in-law!" In one sentence, the two children's faces turned red, while the adults watching the fun looked cheerful. Smiley face. Name, but still not sure where he is buried. Finally, someone suggested that she go to the unnamed cemetery to search, because every tomb there had a wooden sign on it. After more than two hours, their feet finally touched the hard ground. At that time, the two people were as if they were fished out of the water. It was after the last jump that she fell down, her face pale and her lips purple. He then remembered that that day, it was the day when her menstrual period was at its worst. They kept arguing, but every time he turned around and said sorry. Although she felt like the wait for him to turn around was getting longer and longer. Then one time he walked out of her room after they argued over something trivial. day. The date of burial of the deceased is noted. The day after she rushed there with a glimmer of hope, she took the initiative to hold his hand and never let go from then on. Liu Ting and Sang Guomin were both classmates at Shanghai Medical University and deputy chief physicians of a Class A hospital in Suzhou. They had a daughter, Miaomiao, and lived a prosperous life. When they arrived in Xi'an, Wei Chuang didn't have much money left with him. In order to save money for travel, he found a job at his home courier company, delivering couriers, and he also went to Mio. Su Su suddenly came to him and begged him to go back. She said she couldn't bear to see him wandering around like this, not to mention that he was the only son in the family and was the hope and support of his parents. And even without him, Mio's life would still have another possibility of perfection and excitement. Happy and contented. . , but the brand had long since disappeared, and she found nothing. Dad pulled me back.

We hugged each other and cried. My dad said something that I will never forget in my life: "Man, a real man, be strong! There is no obstacle that you cannot overcome! If you die, your mother and I will not live either." It’s gone!”

Dad’s words made me strong, because I knew that my life was not just my own. Therefore, even if it is for your parents, you must live well.

Life