See what Americans think of the parents of our international students.

Mothers of international students from all over the world come to visit their children in the United States, and most of them stay in hotels. Before departure, in order not to disturb the normal life order of children, we should arrange the itinerary. They either invite their children to travel with them on weekends or have dinner with them in their hotel. When they broke up with their children, they wished each other well. But the mothers of foreign students in China are different. What is the difference?

Mothers of international students from all over the world come to visit their children in the United States, and most of them live in hotels. Before leaving, they arranged their itinerary in order not to disturb the normal life order of their children.

They either invite their children to travel with them on weekends or have dinner with them in their hotel. Then walk around the city, there are few big bags and small bags with daily necessities, and parents who are familiar with American culture will not spend their energy to bring unnecessary daily necessities to their children. When you break up with your child, wish each other happiness, happiness, success, mother loves you and so on.

Chinese mothers are different. Although many people know that the United States is extremely rich in materials, you must bring a lot of things when you visit your children. No matter whether you have money or not, you should live in children's dormitories, even if businessmen in coastal cities have money and economic strength to live in high-end hotels. This is our way of life. If we are tired of living with children, we will get close. Then mothers began to practice, helping their children wash clothes and cook for them. Whether children like it or not, they should make a refrigerator steamed stuffed bun, jiaozi braised pork. In fact, these international students are so nervous about their studies that they don't have time to come back for dinner at noon, so Chinese mothers look at their children eagerly. "So you won't come back?" That look is, can't you make time to spend more time with your mother?

Of course, children can't bear it. Mother came across the ocean to see him. Can't she come back for lunch early? Come back for lunch every day for a month. Come back for dinner after self-study in the afternoon Sometimes when we go home for dinner and chat, Chinese mothers rub their feet, pat their backs and massage their necks, so that children fall into soft affection and don't want to study by themselves at night. I failed three courses in a month.

A Chinese mother, an English professor at a famous university in Shanghai, came to visit her son. My son goes to high school. I told her that American law stipulates that parents can't live with children of the opposite sex over 5 years old. Don't talk about sharing a bed. She said cheerfully, gently and elegantly, it doesn't matter. I am his mother, not anyone else.

I once solemnly told her that American neighbors have a strong sense of citizenship and neighbors will report it. She won't listen to me. I'll only stay for a month. She shares a bed with her son. As a result, she was reported by her roommate, and the court sentenced her to sexual assault and deportation.

Chinese mothers will cry when they leave their sons, and they will tell their sons to be careful, as if they are surrounded by liars and life is full of traps. Children also say to be careful when going to school and put away their schoolbags and computers, while American mothers often say to have fun.

Who can send their children to study abroad without money? Some Chinese mothers are very high-profile because they are rich and wear all kinds of famous brands. People in China who have lived in the United States for a long time will laugh at their "bumpkin blooming". Where is the dirt? Americans have a very detailed classification of what clothes they wear and what daily necessities they use. Even homeless people, picking up garbage and picking up such things, will send them for this purpose and refuse to mix them together. Take handbags as an example. Rich people in the United States go out to eat and participate in activities at night, usually with small bags and dark and bright clothes. You can't wear shiny clothes during the day. You can't travel with LV bags, which makes people laugh. You should use outdoor bags and outdoor activity bags. Chinese mother Lu Bao goes shopping and swimming.

Chinese mothers like to walk around in pajamas and use them as casual clothes. The children are several students sharing a house * * * using the kitchen * * * using the bathroom. Chinese mothers who must live in children's dormitories must go in and out in pajamas. When someone dissuaded her and told her that she should wear pajamas in the bedroom, the mothers looked disapproving. These children are like my son, and my old lady has nothing to do with them. As a result, he was unfortunately accused of sexual harassment by local students and kicked out by the landlord as an unwelcome tenant. Everything in America is under the control of the law. The landlord's eviction is not what we expected, that is, he won't let you live and will move out next month. You must go to the court to apply for an expulsion order. Once this order is given, you must move out within a limited time, and you must make a very bad record. It will be very difficult to find a house and a job in the future, and even affect the immigrant green card.

A Chinese mother from Hainan, a university professor, likes cooking. In America, most people drink milk and coffee for breakfast, eat sandwiches and eat fruits and vegetables for lunch. The open kitchen does not fry, pays attention to hygiene, does not eat indiscriminately, and does not even eat fried food. Hainan mothers in China will fry egg cakes, steam fish, cook porridge and soup for two hours for breakfast, and get up early to cook every day. There are smoke detectors in American houses. When she cooks, the alarm clock will ring. In order not to let the alarm go off, she took a ladder and covered it with a plastic bag. As a result, the child's roommate was charged with vandalism. The alarm was connected to the fire station, and her child's roommate could not see clearly in the eye surgery, adding another felony: infringement of the right to life of the disabled. Jumping into the Yellow River really won't wash off.

Chinese mothers often worry about their children's choice of college majors, while life in the United States can start over at any time. They go to college and can change their major at any time. Generally, American college students will change their majors during their college years. When choosing a major for their children, mothers in China first pay attention to popularity, so that they can find a job. They seldom consider their children's hobby potential, and often make them realize their unfulfilled life regrets.

A boy in Dalian, after giving birth, his mother divorced him, worked alone to earn money, went out to lecture and scrimped, and suffered from various chronic diseases. My son chose his favorite major in America, and his mother had a heart attack. Then his aunt, grandmother and father lined up to persuade him to change his major. The child receives several phone calls every day to listen to instructions. This is incredible for American parents' educators. Later, her mother died of a heart attack, and the child committed suicide after hearing the news of her death. This is the story of a Chinese mother who once caused a sensation in a community school.

Chinese mother said, the child is mine, I gave birth to it, I raised it, I am responsible for his life, and I want to dedicate myself to it. In fact, mothers really don't understand that everyone is just a small part of others' lives. Chinese mothers' lingering affection for their children is beyond the understanding of American mothers. This is the difference of deep cultural background. An old professor went to the United States with 65,438+RMB to buy a house for his children, but cut his hair in front of the mirror.

The emergence of the cultural phenomenon of "Chinese mother" may lie not in knowing the specific laws of a certain country, but in the great differences in lifestyle and concepts between China and other countries in the world. But in any case, the original intention of Chinese mothers is the most selfless, and it can even be said that they sacrificed themselves and fulfilled their children.

May this year 10 is Mother's Day. On this day, many people will send carnations to their mothers.

Why give carnations as Mother's Day gifts? This is the first Mother's Day commemorative stamp issued by the United States in May 1934. On the stamp, a kind mother, with her hands on her knees, looked at a bunch of bright and beautiful carnations in the vase in front of her with joy. With the spread of stamps, Mother's Day is associated with carnations in many people's hearts, and carnations have also become a symbol of maternal love and are highly respected by people. Carnations are associated with Mother's Day. People place their feelings of missing and honoring their mothers on carnations, which have become an indispensable and precious gift for their mothers.

Carnation flowers are warm.

Most carnations represent love, charm and respect. Light red represents admiration, and deep red represents deep love and care. Pure white represents pure love and luck; Decorative carnations represent apologies for refusing courtship. Pink carnation has the most important symbolic and historical significance, so pink carnation has become a symbol of immortal maternal love.

Carnation: Great, Holy and Kind Mother

Red carnation: I wish my mother a long and healthy life.

Pink carnation: I wish my mother always young and beautiful.

Yellow Carnation: Long-term Friendship

White Carnation: Pure Friendship

I hope it will help you and I hope it will be adopted.