Why are Chinese men deprived of custody when they bathe their 10-year-old daughter?

There is a law in the United States that after a girl reaches the age of 6, her father is not allowed to help her take a bath or shower.

When children are 6 or 7 years old, parents can't help children of the opposite sex to bathe. For example, girls need mom's help and boys need dad's help, otherwise they will get into trouble. Because the teachers in the school will talk about this issue after the children go to primary school at the age of 6 or 7, schools with more foreign teachers will pay more attention to the children's privacy, and will ask the children more about "who will help take a bath" and whether there is physical contact. If the girl replies "Dad helps to take a bath at home", the school will definitely call the police.

The incident also made parents in China reflect: How to raise children?

Children's sex education is a topic that parents pay more attention to. In the process of children's growth, almost every family will encounter problems about nudity. For example, fathers take boys to bathe or swim, and mothers take girls to bathe or swim, which is very common in public baths in big cities in previous years. Sometimes, fathers take their daughters to the men's locker room, and vice versa. At the same time, children will naturally see other people naked. What are the advantages and disadvantages of this?

The advantage that children can see their parents naked is that they can accept their physical development and sexual characteristics better and more naturally when they grow up. Physical contact as a child can promote emotional communication and cultivation between them and adults, so that they will have a stronger sense of security. If children can take a bath with their parents at an early age and have the opportunity to face each other naked all the time, they will naturally accept this without any negative effects.

On the contrary, if there is no such habit in the family in the past, when parents suddenly appear naked in front of them, it will make children feel shocked, uneasy and shy, especially when they are older. It is not a bad thing for children to acquire knowledge about the body structure of both sexes at an early age, which is very beneficial to determine their psychological gender, that is, sexual identity. In this way, the difference between the shape of the body and the size of the sex organs will be recognized, and they will be provided with an accurate imagination of what they or the opposite sex will look like in adulthood.

In a word, it is worth discussing whether parents can face their children naked, but it cannot be denied that it has positive significance in their early life. Of course, as you get older, you should gradually teach your child to keep privacy and respect his privacy. During this period, parents should pay special attention to their own behavior and don't do anything that violates the above precautions and makes adults and children feel embarrassed and unnatural.