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Although I don't know how to answer your question directly or how to give you the best answer, I want to show you something my friend showed me when I was as negative as you.

First, a positive attitude:

Things always coexist with yin and yang. A positive attitude always sees the good side of things, while a negative attitude only sees the bad side. A positive attitude can make a bad thing better, and a negative attitude can make a good thing worse. Today's era is a contest of understanding! A positive attitude is like the sun, where it shines, and a negative attitude is like the moon. It's not that there is no sunshine, because you always keep your head down, not that there is no oasis, but that there is only desert in your heart.

Success attracts success, and migrant workers attract migrant workers. Wall Street motto: If you want to be rich, you must stay away from fools, at least 50 meters away.

Second, the mentality of learning:

Learning is to replenish energy for yourself. Only when there is input can there be output. Success is a learning process. Especially in the era of economic knowledge, the cycle of knowledge renewal is getting shorter and shorter, and outdated knowledge is equal to waste. Only by continuous learning can we continuously absorb energy, adapt to the development of society and survive. Good at thinking and analyzing. Good at integration, only in this way can we innovate.

Learning is a process of accumulating wealth and creating wealth. Now learning is income generation, and learning is entrepreneurship.

Learning is to pay attention to the things around you. To study in thousands of books, it is better to take Wan Li Road.

Wan Li Road is not as good as reading countless people, and reading countless people is not as good as guiding teachers.

Third, the mentality of paying:

This is a causal relationship. Giving up is giving, and giving up is also getting. The small house is too small and the big house is too big. Don't think that everything you do is for others and for yourself. There is a saying: everyone is for me and I am for everyone. This is God's will. People who don't want to pay always want to save money, save trouble and effort, and even save success in the end. I ended up with nothing.

Fourth, adhere to the mentality:

We must persist in improving ourselves. The winner is king. Persistence is a state of mind when encountering bumps, not plain sailing persistence. When you encounter a bottleneck, you must stick to it until you break through the bottleneck and reach a new peak. Stick to the end and don't lose to yourself. Time always waits patiently for those who persist in success.

Fifth, the cooperative mentality:

Cooperation is a realm. Cooperation can conquer the world and strengthen alliances. The resultant force is not just the sum of additions. 11= 1 1, plus1is11,which is the resultant force. But one 1 dropped and became-1 1. Football field can best reflect the importance of cooperation. Success is not work, but cooperation. Success is organizing positive people to do things together.

6. Modesty:

Get rid of shortcomings and absorb advantages. Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind. There is a saying: modesty is the greatest achievement of mankind. Modesty makes you respected. The fuller the ears of wheat are, the more curved they are.

Seven, grateful attitude:

Appreciate everything around us, including ups and downs, difficulties and our enemies. Things do not exist in isolation. Without everything around you, you don't exist. Even resistance is a reaction of power.

Eight, zero mentality:

Start over. It is relatively easy to succeed the first time, but not the second time, because there is no return to zero. The failure of enterprises is often due to the success of the past, and the law of things development is wave-like progress, spiral rise and periodic change. China's old saying is that the tables are turned. Economics: asset reorganization. There's a saying in TV series: Life is all over again. If we don't return to zero, we can't enter the new property right reorganization, and there will be no sustainable development.

Opportunities are everywhere in life, so many successful people, who gave them? They gave it to them themselves. They hold their destiny in their own hands and never miss every passing opportunity!