Many men are unwilling to marry older leftover girls because they think there is something wrong with these girls. Why do they think so?

In real life, it is not that many men are unwilling to marry older leftover women, but that older leftover women are unwilling to find men with average conditions. In layman's terms, the so-called "leftover women" mean that their conditions are relatively good, they have a car and a house, and their income is relatively high. They hope that the standards for choosing a mate are similar to their own, and there are too few men who are like good people. Unwilling to do so, they can only gradually become single. To be honest, it is not difficult to marry an ordinary person as long as you lower your mate selection standards appropriately.

1. What is worrying is that with the improvement of living standards, women’s standards for choosing a spouse have also improved a lot. Generally speaking, girls on blind dates in rural areas require that their men earn more than 10,000 yuan a month. I have a house and a car in the city. This situation discourages many ordinary immigrant workers. It's not that most men despise older leftover women, but that their own conditions are not worthy of them. The reality is that men cannot afford wives, and girls want to marry men who have money, a car, a house and a car and can get gifts, but there are too few such outstanding men. There is a kind of older girl who usually Don't want to deal with people. She is very old, but mentally she still looks like a little girl, with a normal IQ but a lagging emotional intelligence. Such girls are a bit troublesome. They have not grown up mentally and have not given themselves the abilities corresponding to their age, which is very detrimental to others. Instead of finding such a leftover woman, a man might as well find a little girl.

2. The higher the level of economic development, the better the conditions for women to receive education, giving them more employment environment choices, and once they are financially independent, they can live freely. Some men don't make as much money as they do, and over time, they become leftover women. It should be said that leftover women are not liked by men, but because she is too good or too picky. If she can change her subjective initiative and put down her high profile, she will definitely break away from the ranks of leftover women. Because they are excellent themselves, men dare not be arrogant. To avoid being overwhelmed and getting something for nothing, this is the main reason why leftover women cannot get married.

One wrong step in one's marriage leads to wrong steps and more will follow. The reason why you must be careful when choosing the other party is that once you choose, you will not give up easily. To persevere and persevere means to believe in yourself and have no regrets or regrets. The reason why men have their own unique way of choosing a mate is that they would rather marry a married woman than an older leftover woman.