Why is a long marriage actually a "scam"?

With the gradual opening of people's concept of love, coupled with the popularity of various social software, new love modes such as online dating are constantly emerging, and the proportion of distant marriage in love is beginning to grow. Moreover, after the long-distance relationship is over, most girls will comfort their parents and say that they will always go home after marriage. At the same time, for the happiness of their daughters, most parents will give women the greatest support and let them choose to marry far away, even if they don't want to. Beautiful scam? .

1. Most girls will tell their parents that they will often go home when they are married.

Many girls will comfort their parents when they decide to marry far away, saying that although they will marry far away, the distance will not be a problem, and they will always go home to see their parents, but in fact few people can do it. We all know what it means to get married far away. It was fine when they first got married, but as the husband and wife became more and more busy at work and had children with each other, they themselves would be swallowed up by the busyness and irritability of life. At this time, plus being far away from her parents, her daughter seldom calls her parents. Not to mention the promise I made to my parents that I would go home often. Most parents will give their daughters the greatest support when they choose to marry far away.

In fact, in this world, no one really knows better than parents about the negative impact that distant marriage will bring to their daughters. Their daughter lives so far away alone. Even if she was wronged, angry and crying there, they couldn't come forward to comfort her for the first time. They can only feel distressed silently at home. However, even so, parents will choose to support their daughter's choice out of consideration for her future happiness.