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The article "Zhan Tianyou" mainly wrote, 1905, the Qing government proposed that domestic engineers independently build the railway trunk line "Jing-Zhang Railway". Under the threat of most imperialist countries, Zhan Tianyou resolutely accepted the arduous task of building the Beijing-Zhangjiakou Railway and completed it ahead of schedule.

During the investigation, Zhan Tianyou often encouraged the staff: "Our work must be accurate first, and we can't be a little sloppy. The expressions' probably' and' almost' should not come from engineers. " When encountering difficulties, he always thought: This is the first railway built by China people themselves, and it must be built. Otherwise, it will not only make foreigners laugh, but also make engineers in China lose confidence. He always takes this sentence as the driving force for progress, so he is always fearless when he meets difficulties. This makes me have to admire him.

The words and fragments in the article fully express Zhan Tianyou's responsibility to the project, his spirit of taking the lead and his patriotism.

Think about ourselves again. If we are as persistent and unflinching as Zhan Tianyou when we encounter difficulties in our study and life, what tasks can't we accomplish and what knowledge can't we learn? If we do everything for the country and the collective like Zhan Tianyou, how many living Lei Feng will appear around us? If we have precise requirements in our study like Zhan Tianyou, will we make mistakes because of carelessness?

Although we can't have Zhan Tianyou's great achievements, we should learn from his spirit and excellent qualities, so that the great deeds of Zhan Tianyou, the "father of modern engineers in China", and his indomitable spirit of taking the lead can be passed down from generation to generation.

Reflections on the Romance of the Three Kingdoms

Close the book Romance of the Three Kingdoms, I can't be calm for a long time. Many people with a sense of justice are written in this book. However, I admire Zhuge Liang the most.

He is very witty and sensitive. Since Liu Bei invited him out of the mountain, he has devoted himself to assisting Liu Bei. After Liu Bei died in Baidicheng, Zhuge Liang remained loyal to Liu Bei's son Liu Chan. Do your best for Shu, and die. When attacking Wuzhangyuan, Zhuge Liang vowed to defeat Sima Yi. In those years, he was busy with war, and as a result, he got lung disease and coughed, but during his illness, he was tired of war. Until his death, he never forgot to tell his subordinates what happened after the war. Zhuge Liang, an epic patriot, set a shining example for me with his determination to fight for one thing to the end.

In the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Cao Cao was written as a vicious and treacherous schemer and traitor. Someone once commented that Cao Cao was "an able minister to rule the world and a traitor in troubled times." But I don't think we can simply say that Cao Cao is a capable minister or a traitor.

First, Cao Cao is very good at fighting. In the battle of Guandu under his command, he defeated Yuan Shao's 700,000 troops with 70,000 chosen men and became an outstanding strategist in military history.

Second, Cao Cao is an excellent politician. Governing the country is Cao Cao's strong point. He not only cherishes talents, but also attaches importance to the land system and food issues.

So there is nothing wrong with saying that he is a competent minister, but it cannot be said that Cao Cao is not a traitor.

Cao Cao has an extreme solipsism service concept of "teaching me to be negative to the world, not to teach the world to be negative to me". Cao Cao also did many unkind and unjust things. It is his "strategy" that makes him more cunning, and it is his "talent" that makes him more cruel.

Cao Cao killed the Lv Boshe family out of fear and suspicion; Because of luring Lu Bu, he used the prisoners as cannon fodder to avenge his father. When attacking Xuzhou, the army "killed people and dug graves" wherever it went. The matter of Hua Tuo is a good example.

Cao Cao has a serious headache, and Hua Tuo, the imperial doctor, has a good medical skill. He only gave Cao Cao an injection, and his head stopped hurting. Cao Cao wanted Hua Tuo to stay with him and be treated specially. However, Hua Tuo is determined to alleviate the suffering of people all over the world. Cao Cao saw that he was so stubborn and killed him.

In fact, whether Cao Cao is a "capable minister of ruling the world" or a "traitor in troubled times". But one thing is certain, he has made great contributions to the reunification of the north.

This book is really good. I will watch it several times and learn more valuable spiritual wealth and essence from it.

Reflections on "There is only one earth"

Among the texts I have studied, the article "There is only one earth" impressed me deeply.

"There is only one earth" introduces that the earth is very small in the universe and is most suitable for human habitation. In addition, scientists have not found a planet suitable for human habitation. Yes! We only have one earth. If it breaks down, we have nowhere to go. But there are still some people who don't understand this. They still abuse chemicals unscrupulously, overexploit the earth, destroy the ecological environment, and make the earth we live in deteriorate day by day.

There are many examples around me:

Some people throw rubbish directly from upstairs in order to walk less; Some people throw away used batteries. This will not only make our environment messy, but also pollute the soil and increase the concentration of acid and alkali, which is very harmful to the growth of trees.

Some people cut down many trees in order to make themselves rich. This reminds me that Qin Shihuang cut down trees to build palaces, which led to soil erosion and turned oases into today's Loess Plateau. If we continue to cut down forests, the future earth will be a desert.

On my way home in Yangzhou, I saw the harm caused by the exhaust gas from factories and the harmful gas from cars. Global warming, melting glaciers. ...

Didn't those people think of this day? Sometimes I seem to see the painful expression of Mother Earth, and sometimes I can hear her moan: "Man, my selfless dedication is scarred ..."

After reading One Earth, I made up my mind to protect the earth and make it more beautiful.

Reflections on Zhan Tianyou.

Today, I read this text of Zhan Tianyou with reverence. The text tells the story of Zhan Tianyou presiding over the construction of the first railway in China-the Jing-Zhang Railway. I was moved by his patriotism and impressed by his outstanding talent. Zhan Tianyou, you are amazing!

1905, faced with the obstruction, intimidation and ridicule of imperialism, Zhan Tianyou resolutely accepted the task of building the Beijing-Zhangjiakou Railway. There were many difficulties in surveying lines, digging tunnels and designing herringbone lines, but he did not flinch, but tried his best to overcome them. Because he has a belief in his heart: this is the first railway built by China people, and it must be built. Otherwise, it will not only arouse ridicule from foreign countries, but also make engineers in China lose confidence. With strong patriotic enthusiasm and outstanding talents, the Beijing-Zhangjiakou Railway was completed two years ahead of schedule, which effectively dealt a blow to imperialism that despised China, increased the ambition of the people of China and destroyed the prestige of imperialism. This is a patriotic road! This is a road to success!

After reading Zhan Tianyou's story, I felt patriotic and thought of people like him. For example, Qian Xuesen, an outstanding scientist in China, studied in the United States in his early years and obtained a doctorate with excellent results. However, as soon as he heard the news of the founding of the People's Republic, he immediately decided to go back to work. When he went through the formalities of returning to China and bought a plane ticket, the US Immigration Bureau refused to let him go back to China, saying that he was a spy and had important secrets in his luggage. The FBI kept persecuting him, but he kept asking: I want to go back to China and my motherland! He struggled for five years, and his struggle won the support of people all over the world. On September 1955, I boarded the passenger ship returning to China. On October 8th, 65438/KLOC-0, he returned to the motherland with tears of happiness and made great contributions to the motherland.

The prosperity and great rejuvenation of the motherland need a large number of patriots like Zhan Tianyou and Qian Xuesen to build and create. We should follow their example, study hard, hold our heads high and serve the motherland when we grow up.

The author of "Morning Flowers Pick Up in the Evening" "Dog? Cat? Thinking about Rat

I am very interested in Mr. Lu Xun's article, because there are many interesting and lovely places in his article, such as the ink monkey and the Tibetan mouse in this article. The style of writing is very concise, but the dynamic of the ink monkey is full of eyes, as if he had just "licked the remaining ink on the inkstone" The hidden mouse is also very smart. "One leg goes up and climbs to the knee and ankle."

The liveliness and loveliness of the hidden mouse paved the way for Lu Xun's "anger and sadness" when he learned that it was eaten by a cat, and also explained his "hate for cats" well.

Mr. Lu Xun hates cats, and he clearly listed three reasons in his article. First, the cat's temperament is similar to people's bad temper of gloating and slowly torturing the weak. Second, it always spoiled. Third, it ate Lu Xun's lovely little hidden mouse. The text is concise, the arguments are complete, the position is clear, and it is clear at a glance. Writing articles should also be like this. It is necessary to have a clear stand, clear views and sufficient arguments.

Lu Xun's son wrote an article. He said that if you ask the younger generation, "Who is Lu Xun?" They will say "look at a thousand fingers coldly" and "bow down and be a willing ox" This is too one-sided, not the real Lu Xun. After the founding of New China, Lu Xun's revolutionary essence began to surpass the identity of a writer and thinker, and was particularly emphasized. In fact, Lu Xun is a fundamental writer, and his works are of high literary value. We should study his articles comprehensively and pay more attention to the nature of literature. Mr. Lu Xun's concise writing, interesting legends and humorous language will lead me to Lu Xun and his heart.

Thoughts on reading the Five Classics Club

"Wu Banhui" is a rare thing that Lu Xun recalled going to Dongguan to see Wu Banhui when he was a child.

Because Dongguan is far from the county seat, everyone got up early in the morning. The big ship booked the night before has been moored at Jiangwharf, and chairs, meals, tea stoves and snack boxes have been moved down one after another. When I was a child, Lu Xun laughed and danced, urging them to hurry up. Suddenly, the worker's face became very worried. Little Lu Xun looked around and his father stood behind him. Father told him to bring the book, and he came to his father with the book in his hand. His father taught him to read, "two sentences and one line, about twenty or thirty lines." Let him see it if you recite it, or you won't let him go. It's like pouring a pot of cold water on Lu Xun's head. He read it and remembered it.

The sun rises very high, and Lu Xun will definitely walk into his father's study, and his dream will be over. Father agreed to let him go. Everyone is active at the same time. The workers picked him up as if to congratulate him on his success, but Lu Xun was not as happy as they were. After the voyage, the scenery in the waterway, the snacks in the box and the excitement of the Dongguan No.5 cabin meeting all lost their meaning to him.

This article describes a subtle conflict between father and son in childhood. My ardent hope for the Five Classics Society and my father's obstruction show my father's ignorance and alienation from children's psychology, and implicitly criticize the irrationality of feudal thoughts and customs. Lu Xun talked about the helplessness and boredom of children when their parents don't care about their psychology.

In feudal society, Lu Xun was born in a well-off family in a county town and experienced social changes and family decline. Lu Xun was surrounded by this dark feudal family style and social status quo.

In Lu Xun's childhood, many playful and childish childishness from children were obliterated.

Reflections on reading notes

Miscellaneous Notes introduces Mr. Lu Xun's life experience from leaving his hometown to studying abroad in pursuit of new knowledge. Based on the author's personal experience, this paper writes about the influence of evolution and bourgeois democracy on progressive youth.

What impressed me the most was that when I was studying in Thunderbolt School, the headmaster wrote an essay entitled "On Washington", and the Chinese teacher didn't know what Washington was. This also shows that people's thoughts were old and aging at that time, and people did not accept or reject new ideas. Isn't such a teacher going to delay students' study?

I also hate the so-called "China experts" and "zhina experts" who misinterpret China's long-standing culture. They are an insult to China culture. Of course, those strange ideas will never be accepted by us and should always be resisted.

The most interesting thing about this article is that the two so-called "experiences" before going to study in Japan were just a bunch of nonsense, which shows that China people misunderstood some foreign things at that time.

The following paragraphs also describe the influence of some new cultures on young students at that time, and the older generation's lack of support for learning new knowledge.

Faust's thinking

The story Faust contains strong tragic factors, and Faust reflects various conflicts in the transitional period between the old and the new: religion and science, reason and emotion, conformity and pursuit.

Faust loves learning very much: "Ah, I am tireless. I have thoroughly studied philosophy, law, medical code and, unfortunately, theology." Even, he is a person who pursues perfection: "In the sky, he wants the most beautiful stars, and on the ground, he wants the highest happiness." He gave up himself in order to study: "To this end, I just want the devil to give in. In this way, I don't have to sweat, not to mention things I don't know; ..... "He was very excited about the unknown, and books gave him strength and hope. He feels inadequate about his knowledge and disappointed that he can't unveil the mystery of nature ... His love for learning has reached the point where he can't extricate himself.

"No matter who keeps making progress, we will help him." Goethe said that the secret of Faust's salvation lies in these lines. There is a kind of vitality in Faust, which makes him more and more noble. When he died, he had been saved by the eternal love of the upper world.

Yes, Faust can be saved, not only because he keeps acting, pursuing and overcoming his mistakes, but also because he finally embarked on the right path. His spirit is upward, which is what we should learn. We should also learn from his pursuit, love and hope for learning. We should be good at learning, enjoy learning, love learning and be an upward person. In view of my poor academic performance,

Faust's body was destroyed, but his spirit was saved. A man of action, a man of progress, a man of constant introspection and finally on the right path will eventually be saved. This is the spirit of constantly pursuing and exploring the true meaning of life embodied in Faust's image.

Reflections on "flowers in the morning and flowers in the evening";

"Morning Flowers", originally named "Remembering the Past", contains articles 10 written by Mr. Lu Xun describing childhood and youth life. In Flowers in the Morning, Lu Xun used a lot of contrast and irony. For example, in From Herbal Garden to San Tan Yin Yue, Lu Xun first used many bright words to describe his carefree life in Herbal Garden, and then wrote that "I" had to bid farewell to Herbal Garden and go to school in San Tan Yin Yue. The Herb Garden written in front reflects the boring life of reflecting the moon in the three pools and Lu Xun's dissatisfaction with private schools in the old society. In Mr. Fujino, Lu Xun's Japanese medical tutor, Mr. Fujino, is an informal person. "This Mr. Fujino is said to wear clothes too vaguely and sometimes forget to tie the knot; Winter is an old coat, shivering ... ". However, Mr. Fujino is extremely serious about his work. He supplemented and corrected all the "I" handouts with a red pen. It should also be pointed out that the blood vessels have moved a little. This contrast shows Mr Fujino's noble quality and Lu Xun's admiration for him. In addition, Mr. Fujino's tireless teaching and equal treatment of China students are in sharp contrast with Japanese students' contemptuous attitude towards China students, which shows that Mr. Fujino is a real gentleman. With plain language, vivid characters, and rich and meaningful childhood stories, Flowers in the Morning attacked the old society where people were imprisoned, and reflected Mr. Lu Xun's desire for "human liberation".

Reflections on Two Wan Li under the Sea

Jules verne, the author of Two Wan Li under the Sea, is a French science fiction writer in the19th century with amazing imagination. His surprise lies not only in his exaggerated, touching and scientific novels, but also in the stories he wrote in the book. Although this is not surprising today in the 2 1 century, in Verne's era, people have not invented submarines that can swim underwater, and even electric lights have not appeared. In this context, Verne successfully created the submarine Nautilus in two Wan Li under the sea. Twenty-five years after the novel was published, people built a real submarine, similar to that described in the novel. How far-sighted and knowledgeable this is!

In this way, with reverence, I began to take the Nautilus submarine with Junasz, the protagonist of the book, and began his legendary underwater journey. Captain Nemo, the owner of the Nautilus, was a gloomy and learned man. They traveled together in the Pacific Ocean, Indian Ocean, Red Sea, Mediterranean Sea, Atlantic Ocean, Antarctic and Arctic Ocean, and saw many rare underwater animals and plants, as well as underwater caves, secret passages and sites, including the famous sunken city Atlantis, an ancient civilization with a history and culture comparable to that of Greece. These books contain a great deal of knowledge about science, culture, geography and geology. O Junasz expressed admiration for Captain Nemo's outstanding talent and knowledge in the voyage. However, in the fascinating story, people are also warned that while seeing that science and technology benefit mankind, they should pay attention to preventing acts that are used by bad people and endanger the human crisis; Put forward the concept of caring for marine life such as seals and whales and condemning indiscriminate killing and fishing. These environmental protection topics, which are still popular today, have been called for by prophets 200 years ago. It can be seen that what leaves a deeper reflection on human justice is to let readers feel colorful adventures and vivid knowledge, and to inspire us to get more books from our hearts.

The subtlety of this book lies in the complete enlightenment of knowledge of nature, although it tells a lot about the ocean. For example, the mucus secreted by a tiny creature called fenugreek in the Red Sea makes the sea water as red as blood. But none of them are deliberate, and none of them are hard for readers to accept. It's just what they saw and heard during a trip, which makes people firmly retain all kinds of ideas and gains born of scenery.

Not every science fiction novel is as readable as Two Wan Li under the Sea. As a novel that is not fabricated out of thin air, but accumulated by foresight and erudition, it not only explains their journey for readers who don't know underwater knowledge in detail, but also shows the wisdom and civilization of the ancients to later generations.

Reflections on the Education of Love

Although the educational text of Love is simple and simple, it describes ordinary people, but it reveals sincere feelings between people, which will make people feel moved. For example, in the monthly story-the story of Kyle looking for his mother. The article mentioned that Kyle's mother decided to work in Buenos Aires, where her parents were heavily in debt. She has kept in touch with her family since her mother left. But since the last time Kyle's mother wrote that she was not feeling well, she has lost contact with her family. Letters sent by family members in various ways are also sinking into the sea. I can't hear from my mother, so it's even colder at home. Father and son are in Lacrimosa every day, and Kyle misses his mother very much. Finally, 13-year-old Kyle took the initiative to find his mother. Kyle's insistence made his father reluctantly believe that this dutiful son, who is as sensible as an adult, will succeed. Everything is ready, and Kyle begins his journey to find his mother. On the way, he experienced all kinds of difficulties and hardships, and tasted the ups and downs of life. I don't know how long it took. With Kyle's unremitting efforts and people's help, he finally found his dying mother who lost her life consciousness. Kyle's appearance made her mother find the value of life. With the help of the doctor, Kyle and her mother finally met again ... After reading these, I can't help but admire Kyle's deep love for her mother. Think about yourself again. As big as Kyle, but ignorant, so small. As long as something happens to sesame and mung beans, throw the fire to mom. Really wrong. ...

"Love" is a word that each of us often talks about. However, sometimes, we tend to ignore the love around us, such as parents' meticulous love for their children, teachers' guidance to students, and mutual comfort between friends ... these are often taken for granted without careful understanding. And if you experience it, you will feel how wonderful life is!

Reflections on The Adventures of Tom Sawyer.

The Adventures of Tom Sawyer, written by Mark Twain, a great American writer, mainly describes the life of American teenagers. The background of the story is/kloc-St. Petersburg on the Mississippi River in the United States in the 9th century.

Tom, the hero of the story, is a typical American teenager who is naive, lively and naughty. He and Shaq, a wild boy, have done many wonderful things that make people laugh. For example, Tom was punished for painting the fence, but he played a trick, which not only made other children willing to work instead of him, but also automatically sent him a thank-you gift. Later, Shaq and I fled to a desert island. People thought they were drowned and were holding a funeral for them in the church, but they hid in the church bell tower and eavesdropped. Although these naughty actions can't set an example for us, he resolutely stood up as a witness of justice and saved the innocent criminal-Muff Peter. Besides being naughty, he actually cracked a murder case with Shaq and became a little hero admired by everyone. It seems that Tom also has something to learn.

In fact, children's playfulness sometimes just reflects their innocence. This innocence is hard to find after childhood, and what can be found is only a little sweet memory that will be remembered occasionally. I believe that even if your childhood was bitter, you will be happy in retrospect. Who didn't do anything stupid as a child? The older you get, the more interesting you will find these stupid things. I said, childhood is like a can of sweet wine. The longer it takes, the more fragrant it tastes, the purer it is, and the more memorable it is.

People will grow up. Besides being taller and stronger, people's minds are also growing. Your view of the world is different. You are sensible and no longer naive. But people have to get better and better. Don't be like the ruthless villain Zoe in Adventure. He did all the bad things and everyone hated him. But in the end, what goes around comes around, and he finally starved to death in the cave.

After reading The Adventures of Tom Sawyer, I really envy Tom for having such an interesting experience. This book makes people read it with relish, even forgetting to eat and sleep. I think The Adventures of Tom Sawyer might make you laugh when you are bored.

Reflections on Wuthering Heights

Wuthering Heights, the only outstanding work not lost in the dust of time, Wuthering Heights, the only glorious work with permanent artistic charm.

I spent more than a week watching Wuthering Heights. When I closed the book, I couldn't help thinking that this unmarried woman who had lived in the mountains for a long time and had little contact with the outside world could write a novel that she loved so deeply and hated so deeply. This woman who has lived in an unfortunate world all her life, lonely and desolate, has no laughter and no friends, how can she write such a great work with originality and advance? In fact, no matter what, no matter what, this extremely rich and wonderful book can let us understand the true meaning of many lives!

What makes Wuthering Heights an immortal work? First of all, it is not influenced and controlled by the popularization in the city, and it completely depicts an original mountain village wilderness scene. Let people appreciate a completely different world. The protagonists in the story have retained their original characters: love regardless of the consequences and hate regardless of the consequences. All this is very special and fresh for us who have been bound by traditional etiquette for a long time. Some people say that Wuthering Heights is "the most magnificent epic of human love". I want to say that all this is attributed to the author Emily? Bronte is very imaginative; Extremely strong passion; Extremely profound inner experience and her talent and ability to sublimate the theme. I think these are the reasons why Wuthering Heights can sell so well.

When I reflect on the profound connotation and essence of this book, I find that I have learned a lot in Wuthering Heights, among which the most impressive thing is that it has taught me to safeguard the dignity of human nature and the freedom of mind. No matter how severe challenges or cruel tests we face, we should yearn for freedom.

Reflections on A Dream of Red Mansions

As early as more than 200 years ago, this book shocked the high-level society at that time. Holding books while burning them,

In fact, I don't think a dream of red mansions is a love novel, and the love tragedy of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu is not the central story. However, this tragic failure is indeed the main clue of the whole book, and we deeply regret the ending of these two people anyway.

Of course, two rebels of the landlord class tried to dominate their marriage and destiny, and the outcome was doomed to be tragic.

Let me talk about Lin Daiyu's character and thoughts first. She is "proud and confident, and there is no dust at present", which is obviously incompatible with the surrounding environment. "So few people in the Jia family like him except Baoyu." "The sword is cold and severe 360 days a year" and "the quality is clean and neat, and it is not allowed to sink." A funeral poem describes the pollution of the surrounding environment, anger at persecution and despair and sorrow for the broad future. This is also the source of her bitter and crying personality. She is a typical aristocratic girl with rebellious spirit.

Jia Baoyu is also a typical rebellious spirit. As a wealthy and idle person in the Grand View Garden, Jia Baoyu naturally has many dudes' habits and is deeply branded with the noble landlord class. However, compared with Jia Zhen, Jia Lian and Xue Pan, he is really a temperament. He did not take the right path of studying, being an official, becoming famous and respecting the Lord, but attacked those who were keen on fame and fortune and career economy. Scold Xue Baochai and others to persuade him to pay attention to the fact that the career economy is an "asshole", and even more overturned the article: "The spirit of beauty between heaven and earth is only for women, and men just write scum." He even resented himself, "Why were you born in the waiting room? Twill brocade also wrapped my dead tree; Sheep wine only fills the mud ditch in my cesspit: the word wealth is really poisonous! " These thoughts and behaviors were against feudal orthodoxy and were naturally unacceptable at that time.

So Bao Dai's idea can be said to be the same. She never thought Baoyu was talking about a bastard. She regarded Baoyu as a confidant. Their love is also based on this rebellious spirit. We can see two obvious characteristics: one is the rebellion against feudal orthodoxy, especially against Zhu Cheng Neo-Confucianism and stereotyped imperial examination; First, I feel helpless and desperate for myself, my family and the future of my class. Lin Daiyu may be in a helpless and helpless position because she is a woman, so the pressure of survival is heavier and she is depressed. One hopes that "a cup of pure land will hide the wind", and the other hopes that it will turn into dust and smoke, or be "sent to that secluded place where there are no birds, and disappear with the wind, so don't be a man again." On the one hand, it is a rebellious spirit that is extremely uncoordinated with the surrounding areas, and on the other hand, it is a sense of despair and decline towards this class.

This rebellious thought, reflected in the love at that time, was quite morbid, deformed and pathetic. I can only end up with a "no sad song for me, flowers fall and people die". Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang deliberately planned a scam and insisted that Xue Baochai marry Baoyu, just to get in touch with the four major families and expand their political power. When it comes to the key to safeguarding her own interests, Jia will not hesitate to kill her lifeblood and darling. However, Bao Dai and others have repeatedly pinned their hopes for marriage on Jia Mu, hoping to get her support and promise, which is simply pedantic and extremely weak.

Think about their thought of despising feudal "official career economy" to oppose the "marriage of wood and stone" carefully arranged by feudal moralists. How can they not end up in crash and burn?

Sadly, we have seen the love tragedy caused by this absurd class concept, but we still can't avoid the concept of forced marriage in real society, which keeps marriage away from love until it withers and lasts forever-