How to pay attention to the attitude of interpersonal communication

1. To make others like you, you must first be interested in others. Treat everyone the way you want others to treat you.

2. Learn to be obedient. Get along well with others and listen to others patiently. A Dutch immigrant boy aged 13 has become a "first-class celebrity visitor" in the world. It turned out that he bought a set of American Celebrity Legends. He wrote to these celebrities and asked them to talk about the interesting things about becoming famous, so he received many letters from celebrities. He deeply understands that "some great men prefer a good listener to a good confidante".

3. Learn to speak and be good at expressing your feelings and thoughts; Pay attention to the discretion of speaking on different occasions; Don't say things you shouldn't say; Paying attention to humor in speech can increase interpersonal attraction and overcome embarrassing scenes; In conversation, pay attention to talking about the things that the other person is most interested in and cherishes, make them happy, and you will not be difficult to get close to them.

Giving up jealousy and being jealous of others is actually an attempt to deprive others of the material and spiritual needs they have obtained, which can easily arouse others' resentment. At the same time, we should overcome the bad psychological state such as doubt, demanding, loneliness, inferiority and complacency.

5. Make friends carefully and make useful friends. Not everyone wants to make friends, and not everyone can be your friend. Choose to make friends in interpersonal communication, improve yourself, find happiness, get rid of sadness, which is beneficial to physical and mental health.