Five reflections after observing the first lesson of the 2018 semester

Reflections after watching the first lesson of school (1):

Last night, my son and I watched the program "The First Lesson of School" on CCTV's comprehensive channel. The program is divided into three chapters: "filial piety", "propriety" and "love", ending with "strength", and is integrated into the entire program with guest speeches, character stories, artistic performances and interactive games.

"The buttons of life must be fastened from the beginning." This sentence makes us understand that family education and parents' precepts and deeds are very important. Just like the story of "Fairy Tale King" Liu Yuanjie telling his story with his son, such as giving delicious food to parents first, staying with parents as much as possible, and washing parents' feet once. If you do it, the children will see it next to them, and they will be able to see it in the future. I will also be filial to you in this way, so some things must start from now, starting from every bit around you. The most touching one is the story of "rock dad" Qin Yong who resolutely quit the stage ten years ago just to accompany his son Dazhu, who suffers from severe sensory integration disorder. They work together to overcome difficulties, accompany each other, and grow up together. , taught us all a lesson full of "love", which not only expresses the love of parents, but also teaches children to love themselves, love life, and love life. Personality is that his son is actually called his buddy, and the relationship is so harmonious. But think about it, it is like playing a game of "cat and mouse" between us and our children. We should learn from it...

After watching "The First Lesson of School", I feel that we as parents should set an example, be a messenger with a sense of responsibility and mission, spread love, and be a compass and good role model for our children.

Reflections on the first lesson of school (2):

On September 1st, the day when primary and secondary schools across the country started school, the Ministry of Education and CCTV jointly held the "First Lesson of School" "Class" large-scale program. In the evening, my daughter and I stayed by the TV early, waiting for the show to start.

The theme of this year’s program is “What My Parents Taught Me”, which emphasizes the importance of family education.

Filial piety is the virtue of our Chinese nation. How to inherit and carry forward this virtue? I think first of all, as parents, we must set a good example for our children, and what we do above and below will be effective. Only when we are filial to our elders can our children be filial to us.

Qin Yong uses the story of him and his son to explain the true meaning of love well. Love is tolerance, love is persistence, love is not letting go. Love him just because he is your child, nothing else. As long as we trust our children, appreciate our children, accept our children, and help our children in times of difficulty, our children will definitely become better and better.

We in China are known as a country of etiquette, but the overwhelming number of negative news in society at this moment makes us not only doubt this: Are we really a country of etiquette? What can we as parents do about this? What? I want as parents, we should set an example by not harming or hindering ourselves, others, or society, and be virtuous people. Then our children will follow suit, and then our society will be a perfect society.

Reflections on the first lesson of the school year (3):

On this day, primary and secondary school students returned to school after their holidays. This fall’s essay on the review of “The First Lesson of School” is titled “What My Parents Taught Me.” The "Fairy Tale King" talks about family tradition and "filial piety", Qin Yong, the former lead singer of the Black Panther Band, talks about "love", young singer Joey Yung talks about "propriety"...the theme is tall and distinct. I believe that this theme is not the "first lesson of school" for children, but a make-up lesson for parents before school starts. As a parent, what you have taught your children is discussion and torture.

Regarding parent-child ethics, there is a classic joke on the Internet: In the eyes of parents, there is always a perfect child, and his name is "other people's children." Inferring backwards, does every child have a pair of perfect parents, and their names are called "other people's parents"?

As a child's natural life mentor, how to guide your child to sing his destiny? The good voice doesn't have the answer. The known answer is that when the children grow up and ask "Where are mom and dad?" during the critical stage of growth, as parents, I am afraid they will feel great frustration. The source of this frustration often comes from the lack of love and education. A few years ago, there was a group on Douban called "Parents Are a Disaster", which clearly raised the banner of opposing parents and aroused widespread attention and discussion. This group gathered a group of young people who were frustrated in their parent-child relationship. They declared in the group, "Opposition is not the goal, but a deliberate means to resist the shackles of corrupt, ignorant, and unreasonable parents on the premise of filial piety." ”

According to the principles of ethics and principles, boycotting parents in this way seems to be a bit “treasonous”. But the topic of this "rebellious" group discussion complements the theme of today's "First Lesson of School" - as a parent, have you taught your children what filial piety, love and etiquette are, or whether they are decadent, ignorant and understand your children? Only by understanding what we are against can we understand what we should teach our children.

The breakdown of etiquette in schools and the distortion of children’s values ??are inextricably linked to parents’ education. There is no denying that this is a rough time. Character and integrity, principles and bottom line have become forgotten pearls. As everyone knows, this is the most precious wealth for children and even the future.

What kind of values ??are parents transmitting? Giving gifts to teachers, teaching children how to gain vanity through trickery, teaching children how to use unspoken rules flexibly... survival tactics in the workplace have turned into scheming in a fairy tale world. The transmission of this kind of value comes from the inferiority complex deep in the soul: the current harsh and unbearable environment will inevitably become the savage jungle that children will have to deal with in the future. The savagery and roughness of "Wolf Father" and "Eagle Mother" can actually be praised and promoted. It has to be said that this is something that cannot be explained by human politeness, that is, it is an unreasonable atavism and anti-intellectual phenomenon.

What parents have taught us. Asking this question through the mouth of children, can it trigger parents' deep thought and reflection? Will this "first lesson of school" be taken seriously by parents, or will they continue to be stubborn and stubborn? To be conceited is to become a good teacher and friend to children, or to be the one criticized in "Both Parents Are Woes"; to set up the banner of the fathers with glory and dreams, or to bury reason and individuality. Shroud of decay. Parents should take this "First Lesson of School" and answer the question "What have our parents taught us?", which is very important for the growth of children and the changes of the times. What parents teach their children determines what kind of blood is flowing in the body of politeness.

Reflections on the First Lesson of School (4):

This year’s “First Lesson of School” revolves around parents’ education of their children, focusing on filial piety, love and etiquette. , focusing on four aspects to build a lively and interesting classroom for children. Whether it is what Zheng Yuanjie said about teaching by example, or Qin Yong's love to accompany his children through the difficult years of illness, or the family tradition education that Joey Yung received, it is not difficult for us to see that in the growth of children, , parents are always the most important part.

Children are the mirror of their parents, and all their behaviors are learned from their parents. Just like what Zheng Yuanjie said, he gave the newly bought TV set to his father, and his children also learned to give him the prawns that they were reluctant to eat. As parents, we have the obligation and responsibility to establish a correct outlook on life and values ??for our children. And all of this starts from small things, bit by bit, through our own actions to convey positive messages to children, teaching them how to be filial to the elderly and how to be kind to everyone around them.

It is said in "The Precepts of Doing Good" that loving one's son but not teaching him is like not loving. This also tells us that when treating children, it is not enough to just have love. Blind doting is a kind of harm to children. From Qin Yong's story, we can see that true father's love is for the healthy growth of children. No matter how difficult it is, devil training must be carried out; no matter how much hardship it is, Nor can we give up cultivating and educating our children. The child suffered from sensory integration disorder. Qin Yong could have chosen to let the child grow up smoothly, maybe as long as he lived well, maybe he could just speak. But he did not give up on educating his children. He spent a hundred times more time and energy than ordinary people to teach his children to ride bicycles. Even though the children and I experienced disappointment and pain every day, we still persisted. That’s why we can see Big Pearl slowly growing up, and the gap between her and normal children is getting smaller and smaller. Love is not only tolerance, but also persistence with full confidence in the future after experiencing all kinds of pain and disappointment. < /p>

In 1933, the Red Army failed in its counterattack against the Fifth "Encirclement and Suppression". In October 1934, the Red Army was forced to withdraw from the Central Revolutionary Base Area and make strategic shifts. This was the beginning of the Long March. After two years of arduous journey, in October 1936, the Red Army's Second and Fourth Front Armies and the Red Army's First Front Army, which were undergoing strategic shifts, met in the Huining area of ??Gansu Province, declaring the victory of the Long March.

Judging from the timetable alone, the Long March is just like this, but as long as you understand it carefully, you will find that this is the miracle of human war. The Red Army fought in fourteen provinces in one campaign. It went through wind and rain and the whole journey was 25,000 miles. The environment was very difficult at that time. The Red Army did not have sufficient supplies of military supplies and food to satisfy its hunger. It was caught in a hail of bullets and people and horses were trapped. In intertwined situations, they ate grass to satisfy their hunger, boiled the ground for food, and had to brave the stars and the moon to overcome thorns and thorns. After thousands of battles, they finally won.