After breaking up, is it so hard to forget?

When two people fall in love, they break up, but it is not acceptable to both sides. After all, breaking up is a failed relationship, because when they choose to fall in love, they all hope to have a beautiful love experience. Only by holding hands can they have ideas and hope to fall in love. Breaking up is not good for both sides, and there will be some blows and injuries. Losing love is painful, but they should not indulge in missing each other, just like the theme. He has a positive and enterprising attitude. He can forget this unhappy lovelorn period through exercise, forget the sadness and torture caused by breaking up, and constantly strive to change himself. After his change, he is no longer what he used to be. He became very confident. Don't pray, don't pester, accept the fact of breaking up. Many people will promise each other again and again in order to save their love. I will change, I will change, just give me another chance, okay? These words are often said n times before breaking up, and repeating them will only attract the other party's disgust. Or maybe you feel hopeless after trying to save it, say in anger that you will never contact again, and then you can't help but contact. These repeated actions are not conducive to recovery, and your image in the other person's heart will be greatly reduced. Second, give yourself some time to calm down and break up. In addition to fake breakups, girls can easily use fake breakups to attract their boyfriends' attention and get more love. When a man proposes to break up, it is usually a deliberate decision. He doesn't want to continue. What is the reason? If you have the chance, you must ask the other person why they want to leave, but many times they won't tell you the real reason, so you can only think and understand for yourself. Or you have some unbearable shortcomings or some realistic external resistance that makes him have to give up, or more rationally, it is easier to give up than to continue. You can find the answer from what he once said. After breaking up, give yourself some time to think about the real reason why the other person wants to break up. Only by finding out the real reason why he wants to break up, can you be targeted when you save it. Breaking up gives yourself a period of time to calm down, and another advantage is to let the other party accept the fact of breaking up. Two people who used to have constant phone messages suddenly broke off contact. It is not only you but also him who is uncomfortable, but it is this kind of pain that will make him miss your previous good and think about the decision to break up. Third, it is difficult for a person who wants to save love to break off contact and find his former self. You may be curious about whether he still loves you, whether it is worth saving, and what he was doing during the breakup. But I tell you, don't contact each other in a hurry. Even if you still love each other, don't always look at his space, pay attention to his Weibo, because once you invest too much, it will only increase your sense of need and make the other person dislike you more and more. So when you break up, you must find the reason, and then set up your own image to make yourself better and better. Maybe at this time, we will be more confident to save this relationship ourselves.