What should mothers do if their children study abroad?

First, when the child boards the plane, the mother’s heart is also taken away. Without news of the child’s safe arrival, the mother’s heart cannot be at ease.

Here we remind new mothers that they can enable international roaming for their children’s mobile phones, or leave the phone number of the senior who will pick them up in advance, so that they can know immediately whether their children have arrived safely. This may seem like a small thing, but from my experience, it is indeed the most worrying thing after the child leaves.

Secondly, in the first two months after the child arrived, he was still getting used to this new city. Children may not necessarily be particularly homesick during this period. On the contrary, this is the time when mothers feel most lost and miss their children the most.

The editor just wants to remind mothers not to infect their children too much, but to be happy with their children and let them know that as long as they are happy, their mother will be happy.

Third, after the surprise English training is over, all English teaching, marathon small tests and big tests are coming, some children will be caught off guard, and the test results may be much worse than imagined, so the children You will be very disappointed and your self-confidence will be severely affected.

This is the time when mothers need to give their children strength, help them analyze the reasons for failure, give more encouragement, and never blame or abuse. Once your children are on track, they will be very busy with studies and various activities. I suggest parents not to call their children every day.

Fourth, living and sleeping aspects. Most of our children are only children, and they have the best food and the best housing at home. When outside, children will inevitably complain about not being able to eat well.

In fact, mothers can rest assured about this. It is not because they eat poorly, but because the eating habits of the two countries are different.

At this time, the mother must not complain with her child. Instead, she should tell him that he should do as the Romans do, and occasionally he can go to Chinatown and open a small restaurant.

Children live in separate rooms at home, and no one interferes with their study and life. Nowadays, several people may live in one dormitory. Your child is used to going to bed early, but other children are used to burning the midnight oil to study; your child is used to memorizing books quietly, while other children are used to reading aloud.

Various environmental changes will make many children uncomfortable. At this time, mothers should tell their children that if they cannot change other people's habits, they must learn to adapt to the environment.

Fifth, the editor believes that there are two types of children whose parents should pay special care and attention.

One type is children who rely on the strict control of their parents and teachers to learn in China. Once such children go abroad, they are like wild horses running wild without the control of their parents, and may go to the other extreme.

I have heard before that there are children who have been relying on the heavy pressure of their parents to study in China. When they go abroad, everything is so new and curious to them, and they cannot resist the temptation of all kinds of new things and become addicted. Due to computer games, academic performance plummeted.

Parents did not learn about their children’s situation in a timely manner through various channels, so they did not realize the seriousness of the problem until they received a warning from the school or even had their scholarship revoked. There is also a kind of introverted child. This kind of personality may not be obvious in China, but it seems out of place in the educational environment abroad.