It is you. How to choose?

First, you said you wanted to study, but your English level is not good. But after that, under the influence of the environment, your English level will definitely be greatly improved. And if you study there, you will have a language class before, so it is impossible for you to study directly.

Second, if your husband goes abroad and you are at home, your relationship will easily crack. Even if you trust each other very much, a long separation may make you feel lonely slowly. So many things that shouldn't happen will happen.

Thirdly, since your husband can go abroad, it proves that his English level should be good, but yours is not so good. You can ask him to teach you some English after work, which will not only improve your progress, but also enhance your feelings. Why not?

Fourth, after all, the level of education in China is limited, and there are not so many things that can be learned abroad. If you really have the opportunity to go abroad, studying abroad is helpful.