My boyfriend wants me to get pregnant before marriage in order to reduce the bride price for my mother. Can such a person still marry?

In order to give your family less bride price, I chose to make you pregnant before marriage. Such a boy has problems with his three views, not to mention the three views, but his family quality education has already had great problems. He can break up soon before he gets married. I had a boyfriend before studying abroad. He has always wanted to emigrate. I heard that I was going to study abroad, and he deliberately wanted me to have a baby abroad without a condom, saying that blabla ... whatever the future, I would marry me. As soon as I was hot, I agreed. (fortunately, I didn't get caught. Now that I think about it, I'm really scared. Don't be credulous, be calm. I asked him: Don't talk about the reputation of pregnancy before marriage, don't you think about it? How troublesome is it for me to study abroad alone when I have children? He replied to me, just a baby, not so delicate. Question, in fact, these two people are similar. Your boyfriend wants you to get pregnant before marriage in order to save money for bride price. My boyfriend wants me to get pregnant before marriage in order to save an immigration fee. Does this boyfriend who is only in charge of X keep it for the New Year?

If the boyfriend really has difficulties at home and can't come up with such colorful gifts, then you can discuss it together, and it is ok not to give such colorful gifts. I'm sure your parents won't be so open-minded, but it's really not advisable to say that you are pregnant just to give less bride price. In reality, there are many boys who make women pregnant in order to give less bride price. When a girl is pregnant, the man may break his word and propose to her at a sky-high price. If she can't handle so many children, is it unnecessary? If you don't want children, it's you who hurt your health, not him. Sadly, you don't want him. Before you marry him, you need to know first whether he can convince you and entrust you with your life. After all, some boys with bad personalities are hard to see before you get married.

If you really love each other, even if your parents ask for a high bride price, the boy will try his best to make up the money. Even if he can't raise money, he can't entrust a girl with pregnancy before marriage.

My boyfriend and I got a license, but we haven't served wine yet, and my family doesn't allow me to go to his house for dinner often. I stayed at his house for the night for fear that his family would think I was not reserved and look down on me. Therefore, before you really get married, don't do such cross-border things, even if you are engaged and pregnant.