We're going to have a debate. I'm against it. The topic is: views on the education of tiger mother and wolf father. How can I argue?

I don't approve of such an educational method as tiger mother and wolf father. First: In essence, it is a kind of violence that forces children to obey their own will. The education method they use will only make children know how to obey. Educating children in this way will make them have no independent thoughts. The wolf parents are likely to cultivate sheep sons and sheep daughters. This is a kind of slave education. Children's personality will be distorted, and education will vary from person to person. Second, many educational methods are control and substitution, which is wrong. It should be guidance and inspiration, and it should be accompaniment and guidance. The education of children should be "natural", follow children's interests and safeguard children's nature. Education should be the integration of interest cultivation, thinking training, behavior cultivation and intellectual inspiration. Therefore, our point of view is that sheep parents are good.

I found several arguments: 1. Long-term beating will distort children's psychology and become the shadow of life. 2. Under the domestic violence, 21.3% of children are psychologically distorted and commit crimes, 12.5% commit suicide, and the rest of the fights are devastated. Wolf Dad is just an example. 3. Long-term depression and humiliation will break out one day, and the consequences are unpredictable. In this way, can you still say wolf mom and dad?

There are so many people flocking to the "tiger mother and wolf father" education, which shows that the worship of "success" in society has gone deep into the field of education. Parents ignore their children's mental health and their happy growth, and believe that as long as they are admitted to a prestigious school, they are "successful". A child who is physically and mentally healthy is not a good boy in the hearts of parents. Only a child who wears the aura of a famous school on his head is what they want and is valuable. This is the fundamental reason why the "tiger mother and wolf father" education has been supported.

Therefore, if this kind of "wolf dad" education is sought after and promoted, the "dark fire" of exam-oriented education will be intensified with the help of this kind of "wolf dad" education. At present, exam-oriented education has become a' cancer' that affects the future development of education in China. To make education in China develop healthily and rapidly, it is necessary to understand this' cancer'.