An optimistic example

1, God will not abandon everyone.

Childhood should be the happiest time for a person, but unfortunately he got a disease called bone tuberculosis. Because the discovery was not timely and the family was poor, they failed to get good treatment. As a result, their knees become permanently stiff and they become disabled.

At a young age, he has to bear not only physical pain, but also mental torture. For him, the future is simply dark. Every time he sees others jumping and active in the sports field, his heart feels as bad as being twisted by a knife. He feels that he is the most unfortunate and pitiful person in the world. Living in this world has no benefit except to his parents and society. People who care about him can't help sighing when they see him like this, thinking that the child is finished and may have to be raised by his parents for a lifetime.

Once, he said to his mother in despair, "Mom, you let me die. What's the point of me living? " It will only bring you trouble. "

My son's request broke my mother's heart. To tell the truth, the mother's heart is more painful than his, because the child's misfortune comes to the mother, which is often doubled. Mother's tears are rolling in her eyes, but she tries hard not to let them fall out, because her mother knows that what children need most at this moment is encouragement and warmth, not sadness and tears. Mother didn't answer him directly, but asked seriously, "Son, have you ever heard that God created man?"

He nodded his head.

Mother went on to say, "son, in fact, God is very fair. He has created your advantages in this respect and will certainly create your shortcomings in that respect. " For example, God gave you a wise mind, and you may not give you a beautiful face again; Giving you a strong body may not give you delicate thoughts; If I give you a beautiful voice, I may not give you agile skills. ...

Therefore, there are no perfect people and no useless people in this world. Everyone has everyone's advantages, but everyone also has everyone's shortcomings. You don't have to be complacent about your own advantages, and you don't have to give up on yourself for your own shortcomings. Everyone has his own existence value. Some people contribute to science, some to literature and art, some to sports, some to architecture ... Although your leg is disabled, it's just a little joke played by God. I'm sure he will make it up to you in other ways. "

After listening to his mother's story, his soul was greatly shocked and his heart was filled with sunshine at once. It turns out that God has not abandoned himself. Living is valuable and can contribute to society. From then on, he no longer felt inferior and worried about his physical disability, but devoted himself to life and study. Many years later, he was admitted to the Medical College of Vienna University with excellent results, devoted himself to the research of otology, and finally made remarkable achievements.

He is 19 14 Nobel Prize winner in Physiology and Medicine, Robert Barene. Barone's story tells us, don't despise yourself casually, don't give in to fate, don't give up easily, even if you are an incomplete person. There is nothing absolutely possible in the world, but there is nothing absolutely impossible. Struggle can change everything and make up for physical defects.

2, optimism, let the ideal fly

When I was a child, after every exam, there were always a few girls with unsatisfactory grades crying in a big mess, and the students around me were in a hurry and tried to persuade them. She is an exception. Even if she misses occasionally, everyone can't see her loss and sadness at all. What hangs on her face is always a happy and hearty smile. After a long time, all the students in the class understood the fact that it is possible to let the sun rise in the west, and it is impossible for her to give up optimism!

Several close female classmates asked her privately, "Aren't you sad about your poor exam results?" Why haven't I seen you cry? "There is still a honey smile on her face:" No one can always be outstanding, as long as I try my best to be myself, that's enough. I have done my best, and the rest is to face life optimistically. "

Later, her seriously ill father died, and her family life was once extremely poor. Sometimes she can only eat one loaf of bread a day to satisfy her hunger. However, even in the face of such a harsh environment, she wiped away her tears, smiled and continued to live, and made remarkable achievements in her studies.

Ten years later, Hua Dan, who has become the director of Shanghai TV Station, has greatly changed his life-he has a job that everyone envies, bought his own house, and his career and life are smooth sailing. At this moment, CCTV suddenly sent her an invitation. On the one hand, it has made great achievements, and accumulated contacts and status through years of efforts; On the one hand, it is a brand-new development opportunity, but it faces all challenges from scratch. After careful consideration, she resolutely chose to go north and started a new struggle in the fiercely competitive CCTV.

When she first came to Beijing, it was the lowest and most depressing period in her life. In that most bitter and difficult day, she did not complain, nor did she complain at all. She told her family and friends that she had tried her best to be herself, and if she could not succeed, she would face it with ease and happiness. Her optimism infected everyone around her, and everyone said nothing more, but gave her whatever help she could.

Soon, people began to be attracted by a girl named Ouyang Xiadan on TV. Her witty language, optimistic personality and professional hosting ability have left a deep impression on more and more audiences. This girl, who was almost exhausted and still poking fun at "the dark night gave me a black eye, which I dedicated to the" first time ",quickly became a famous host of CCTV with her unique charm.

"The balloon was filled with hydrogen lighter than air before flying into the sky." Ouyang Xiadan summed himself up in one sentence when talking about his successful experience: "My body is full of happy and relaxed life ideas, so I can fly."

Carnegie used to be a "runner"

It was once thought that the wealth created by Carnegie, the American industrial giant, was not achieved by anyone according to the time factors such as the value of the US dollar. How did he start? He immigrated to the United States from Scotland with his parents and worked as a child laborer as soon as he landed. 13 years old. His first job was in a textile factory, 12 hours a day, 6 days a week, and his weekly salary was 1. Two dollars.

After he became the richest man in the world, he recalled: "I have earned millions of dollars. However, nothing can compare with 1 in the first week. Two dollars gave me greater happiness! " After working for 12 hours, he dragged his tired body to night school. 15 years old, I finally got another chance: to be a newsboy for a telegraph company in Pittsburgh, that is, to deliver telegrams door to door. He regarded it as a godsend and accepted it without hesitation.

Newsboy is a typical errand boy and looks insignificant. But Carnegie doesn't see it that way. Of course, the newsboy works twice a week. Five dollars, double income, but this is not what he wants. In the present words, what he values is that this is a white-collar job and belongs to the information high-tech industry. 1850, the telegraph is equivalent to the internet today. At that time, most companies used telegrams. Running errands seems low-level, but Carnegie, who is smart, finds that the business information of Pittsburgh is in his hand.

He knows exactly which company always sends and receives telegrams from where, which business is booming and how commercial networks work. It was from here that he jumped to the railway company and finally built his own steel plant. At that time, Scots were beggars in the eyes of the British. Carnegie's family is really poor, but in the end, his factory produces more steel than the whole of Britain.

The reality is ferocious, but we can't wait for the reality to change before we start living. Today is very different from the world 150 years ago. However, it is not impossible for runners to know the consumption habits and laws of many young people, and it is not impossible to develop a special express delivery business from runners.

Optimism is a Chinese character, and the pinyin is lè guān n n.

It means that people, things and things in the world feel fast but self-sufficient and persistent. Optimism is a sunny attitude towards life.